#sickofthiscrap

i trust huey lewis and his news more than anybody else right now...

❗𝙸 𝚠𝚛𝚘𝚝𝚎 2 𝚎𝚖𝚊𝚒𝚕𝚜 𝚝𝚘 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝙵𝚊𝚌𝚎𝚋𝚘𝚘𝚔 𝚜𝚞𝚙𝚙𝚘𝚛𝚝 𝚘𝚗𝚎 𝚒𝚗 𝚑𝚘𝚙𝚎𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚂𝙾𝙼𝙴𝙱𝙾𝙳𝚈 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚘𝚕𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚖𝚢 𝐮𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝚘𝚗 𝙵𝚊𝚌𝚎𝚋𝚘𝚘𝚔. 𝙸𝚝 𝚋𝚎𝚝𝚝𝚎𝚛 𝚋𝚎 𝚍𝚘𝚗𝚎 𝚜𝚘𝚘𝚗 𝚜𝚘 𝙸 𝚌𝚊𝚗 𝚜𝚕𝚎𝚎𝚙 𝑝𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑒𝑓𝑢𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝚝𝚘𝚗𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝❗ #sodone #frustrated #sickofthiscrap #internettrollsbegone https://www.instagram.com/p/CN6L6FbhTjnbbSahPM9w24iEwUkR5boIuzdDMk0/?igshid=3n0pqj3e4zfo

You do not get to tell someone how they play their character. You do not get to tell someone which character they can/should play. You do not get to dictate how the player spends their free time, in and out of game. You do not get to make the player feel like crap when RL gets in the way of game, because RL should always come first. You do not get to say "too little too late" months after out-of-game RP options were offered due to misaligned schedules, because it was inconvenient for you. This is gaslighting, abusive behavior and if that's what you're doing, you should be ashamed. Also when your characters are in a relationship but the players are not, boundaries need to be in place and maintained so as not to allow bleed through; your RP relationship is only as real as the game, even when you have poured emotions into it. If you cannot keep perspective, you are the one who needs to step back and reassess, not point fingers and blame the other player.

A day before Yesterday I had a very heartbreaking experience. I went to buy a few things from a local supermarket and as usual I left my bag at the bag collection point before entry. I had two wallets; one with small pocket change for running errands and the other with money that had just been withdrawn to use for something else. I dropped my bag and got my collection number tag. It was the only time the bag was out of my possession. I got a few things , took my bag and went home. Later when I went to check my bag for the other wallet I found my money missing. I don’t think I will ever shop there again and it’s truly sad that those that are entrusted to secure our belongings end up being the people to watch out for. Thinking about it the hidden storage place could also be perfect for the one “safe guarding” the belongings- to have time and to be out of sight while committing the despicable activity. This doesn’t justify the theft in any way but be cautious at all times, I don’t know how at some point but it can happen to anyone. #sickofthiscrap #beware