#sickofherlies

They say the truth will set you free, so here's some truth about hollyfox.

1. Her name is Kimberly Monda, she's married to Lewis E. Williams, a US Army Sergeant in the Air Defense Artillery.

2. Sgt Williams is a homosexual. When he's not at Fort Sill, he's running off to the Midwest to visit his boyfriend. The entire reason for their marriage is so he can get more Basic Allowance for Housing pay.

3. Lewis will not come out of the closet because he doesn't want to lose face with his unit.

4. Kimberly has been married before this, on a least four other occasions. One of the marriage resulted in a child, named Tristan.

5. Kimberly has several psychological disorders from her childhood, however, she REFUSES to get psychiatric help, even refusing to see a FREE psychologist.

6. Kimberly is a bully of the highest order.

   I. While she and I were together, she attempted on several occasions for force me to change the ending of my story so she would end up with Osiris. A story that had been written and already had an ending before I met her. She even tried to guilt me into changing the story by having the jackal character we created together commit suicide because she couldn't be with Osiris.

   II. At FurtherConfusion 2014, Kimberly and I didn't have this hallowed storybook first meeting like she wanted because of a mix up in flight times (I was told my flight was going to be late, and I ended up getting into San Jose early). The next morning, after being at the con for about 8 hours, I said I wanted to go take a look around without her. She decided to start packing, saying that I didn't want her there. I never said anything along those lines. We had an hour long argument about it, and finally settled on going down to the con together and us staying in the same room.

   III. While I was with her, she wanted to come visit me while I was at college. Her friend Volk managed to talk himself into getting in on the trip (this guy quit his job in Oregon so he could go to Oklahoma with absolutely no plans on how he was going to survive there). Kimberly decided that she was going to force me to let him stay at my apartment, to the point of telling me that she would just stay at a hotel. She even tried to tell me how much actual space I had in my apartment so she could justify bringing Volk along with her. I eventually cancelled the meeting with the break up.

   IV. I revoked permission for her to use Adara during our break up and sent a note to the suit maker that the suit not be made or sent to me, the person who legally owns the character, Kimberly threatened to take me to court for theft. The thief essentially threatening to sue me for stealing my character. After she bullied me into giving her permission again, she has sense run around claiming that Adara is HER character, not giving me any credit at all for her creation.

7. Kimberly is a 12 year old trapped in a 40 year olds body.

  I. During FC 2014, Kimberly ran around taking fursuit photos, grabbing items off shelves, often without asking permission. She took it upon herself to get a picture of me (in suit) in front of Terrie Smith's pirate flag. Terrie Smith's husband showed up, and was extremely upset at this, since I was behind their table. I had thought she had gotten permission, but she hadn't. Her excuse for pissing him off was, "I didn't know better."

  II. A few hours later, Kimberly, myself, Shrag, Lauren Rivers, and Steptoe/Axel aka Desert aka KDVC, were heading up to Shrag and Lauren's room to have a few drinks, watch tv, and generally chill out. On the way there, Kimberly spied a man working out in the hotel gym. She, without asking permission, decided to put her camera to the gym's window and take a picture WITHOUT HIS PERMISSION. She violated California Penal Code § 647(j)(1), which is a misdemeanor offense. When she was confronted by the gentleman, her words were, "He should have known better, he's at a furry convention," which, after being told that she could have faced jail time, soon turned into, "I didn't know any better."

  III. Does that sounds like the words a 40 year old should be saying? Or does it sound more like the words of a child who's been caught doing something they weren't supposed to be doing?

  IV. Kimberly refuses to accept responsibility for ANYTHING negative, especially when she brings it on herself.

       a. Those failed marriages? They're not her fault. She's just not enough to keep a guy.

       b. Her getting fired? It's not her fault. Her bosses were jerks, and the customers who gave her poor marks were meanies. She's never held a job for more than four months, and yet she keeps appearing at furry conventions.

       c. Our break up? It wasn't her fault. I apparently never loved her. I apparently was cheating on her. I was being forced to break up with her because my mom didn't like her. I fell in love with another woman. I'm apparently a raving homosexual who loves cock. I did love her, I just got sick of her bullshit.

       d. Her ban? It wasn't her fault. She was being trolled by evil meanies who hate her because she's fat and popular.

    V. Kimberly will NOT try to improve herself.

        a. When we were together, we chatted for hours about different jobs that I thought she would enjoy or going back to school to get her masters. Every time we had this discussion, she would be excited, only for us to return to the whole discussion a few days later because, "I'm not sure if I'd like it."

8. Kimberly is FAR from being poor. She has super rich parents who build parts for nuclear reactors. She doesn't need anyone's charity.

9. Kimberly is a psychopath.

    I. She would actively project the problems of other couples onto us, creating unnecessary drama.

   II. She asked me on several occasions if I had ever had a deployment wife or deployment fuck buddy. I didn't go to Iraq and Afghanistan to get laid. I went there to do my damn job and come home.