#shemustbelosingit

She needs to get down and dirty and sell the house and put all her money in an account in your name and then divorce him. LOL

Yeah, if only it was that easy. Unfortunately a lot of her retirement is tied up in 401k and Profit Sharing plans at work ,which you really can't hide. And the house is in both names, so she couldn't sell it without his signature.  She's nearly retirement age, so those accounts are fairly substantial and no time to rebuild them.

makingofasoldier replied to your post “Looks like a girl's night is coming soon...”

She should have said "trust me. I'll be shedding roughly 200lbs soon enough" (or however much he weighs). No one needs that kind of emotional abuse. I was in a relationship like that. It's destructive.

May the gods be with you. I have yet to master the "don't upset the über sensitive sister" technique. In my defense though, it's probably because I don't give a fuck. :/

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I don't have a gif folder... clearly I have failed at tumblr LOL

two braids or two side pony tails would be really cute with it

Oh god, yes! You're so right! Side braids would be cute! Shoot! I need some black-out for one of my teeth and I'd look like someone off of Hee-Haw! 

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