Book Review: Playing with Things: Engaging with the Moche Sex Pots by Mary Weismantel
I first came across Weismantelâs work when researching our podcast on Moche sex pots in 2018. For those of you who donât know, the Moche were a people living on the north coast of Peru in the first millennium CE, probably most famous for their ceramics which depict a wide range of sex acts between humans, skeletons, and animals. We talked about them on our podcast particularly for what these pots can tell us about their understandings of gender.
When I was looking into this topic way back in 2018, I found Weismantelâs article âMoche Sex Pots: Reproduction and Temporality in Ancient South Americaâ an interesting discussion of why the Moche may have chosen to depict the types of sex they did, and so I was excited when UT Press got in touch to let us know sheâd written a whole book on the pots â so below is a review of how I found it.
If I had to sum up Wiesmantelâs writing in one word, Iâd say it was refreshing. As soon as I started reading her introduction, I loved her frankness about some of the disappointing realities of modern scholarship; she dives in with a critique of both archaeologyâs unwillingness to engage with the âracyâ material of the sex pots, and sexuality studiesâ tendency to âtrot [non-Western examples of sexuality] out of the closet for rhetorical purposesâ without really engaging with them. As someone who often researchers in these spaces and wades through poorly-thought out, Western-centric analyses of Indigenous gender and sexuality, it was such a relief to know Weismantel was aware of these issues from the get-go. And while the bar may be low, I was also excited to read a book that explored Indigenous sexuality and gender where the author had a clear understanding of, and correctly used, terms like intersex, sex, and gender, rather than throwing them around in confused and inconsistent ways, as Iâve so often found in this area of study.
Refreshing also describes Weismantelâs style overall. This is an academic work â thoroughly researched, footnoted, and at times quite theoretical â but Weismantelâs style remains accessible, easy to understand, and rarely mired down in jargon. I often sit with a pile of non-fiction books on my bedside table that go unread because by the end of the day I donât have the mental energy to engage with them â but I got through Weismantelâs work over several cosy evenings with a struggle.
Onto the content of the book itself â itâs broken down into a literature review, followed by  several chapters about what Moche sex pots do â play jokes, make babies, give power, and hold water. From a queer history perspective, I found the chapter âPots make babiesâ particularly interesting. Weismantel explores the question that often comes up when talking about Moche sex pots â why do they show so many examples of anal sex between various figures, but so rarely show vaginal sex? In answer this, she makes a deliberate effort to eschew her own cultural understandings and expectations about sex and human relationships. Instead, she begins by looking at the pots themselves to see what activities or features the potâs creators have chosen to focus on, and investigate why these may have been important in Moche culture. From a queer standpoint, this makes for a refreshing (there it is again!) look at sex and sexuality that â as Weismantel herself notes â doesnât frame penetrative vaginal sex as the ânormâ or centre the moment of conception, instead creating a wider view of life as formed and affected by a variety of human and non-human relationships.
And before I wrap up, I have to mention the photographs. In 2018, I had such a struggle to find clear photographs of the pots â which made trying to analyse them as pieces of visual culture very difficult. But here, the photos are clear, numerous, and taken from multiple angles! This book is honestly a game-changer in that regard.
As Weismantel does, Iâll end this review with a mention of the work of Peruvian artist Kukuli Velarde, whose artwork Plunder Me, Baby puts her own face onto pots reminiscent of those made by the Moche, labelled with the kind a racist and misogynist slurs she herself has faced due to her Indigenous ancestry. As Velarde explains of her works, "They all have my face for I had to become each of them to reclaim ownershipâŚâ I appreciated this ending to Weismantelâs book, a reminder of something that she acknowledges throughout the book, and that I think the fields of ethnography, archaeology, and anthropology often need to be reminded of - that Indigenous people continue to engage with objects such as the sex pots as their own cultural history, and to be affected by the way in which scholars choose to talk about them.
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If you hate cisgender heterosexual people just because theyâre cisgender and heterosexual you are part of the problem
Hating someone for their sexuality or gender identity is exactly what weâre fighting against
Is homophobia bad? Obviously, but heterophobia is also bad and while it is significantly less prevalent and I donât think there are many (if any tbh) cases of people getting abused/murdered/oppressed for being cishet we still donât need to be rude to cishet people.
We are all humans. We are all part of humanity. I think itâs time we all started acting like it.
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Many folks, including yourself growing up, were probably told to believe whole-heartedly in the gender binary. The binary told you where to go with your life, how to act, it chose your direction liâŚ
I made my first blog post on my nonbinary blog! Iâm gonna talk about so many good topics!!!! Itâs going to be great! Please read!
One of my biggest pet peeves? When someone claims their muse is bi or pan because they are too intimidated to come straight out and say, âHe/She is gayâ.
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I hate all existing gender and sexuality expressions for their failure to be vectors. Now reread that sentence with a different interpretation of the word âexpressionsâ until it makes sense.
If that didnât help, what I mean is genders and sexualities are complicated things made of a lot of detailed parts.
If you say you are âbisexualâ that tells me a tiny bit about your sexual orientation, but not actually that much-two people who are both âbisexualâ can have wildly different sexual orientations. What on earth is âfemaleâ? What on earth is âmaleâ? If they are points, there is a line segment/spectrum between them, but what about slightly off that line?Â
The correct way to represent things like this is with a vector. âBisexualâ is an expression-it can be evaluated. The expression is not a vector. This is a problem.
Unfortunately, human introspection is terrible so I doubt you could tell me it as a vector even if you tried. Instead you have to spend a while introspecting and doing self discovery to determine if you even fall under âbisexualâ.Â
How terrible. We should just scan your brain and give you a nice printout âYou will be 40% male and 75% female, with a primary attraction to males with beards who play the cello or females with long red hair who play the violinâ.Â
Of course, we donât have the tech to do that, and even if we did I donât trust humans with it.
Mini-Menses Tutorial for all the home-schooled / shame-based sexuality kids:
Iâm tired of reading comments from people who donât know this stuff.Â
1.) People who have periods donât know when their periods will start, when theyâll stop or how long theyâll last,
2.) People who have periods donât know how old theyâll be when they begin or when theyâll stop for good.  Periods that have stopped âfor goodâ can restart if the person is under stress.
3.) Â Periods can last two days one month and two weeks the next. Birth control pills can regulate periods but they donât always work.
4.)  People who have periods canât âholdâ it. The body is expelling the lining to the uterus. The person has zero control over when the body bleeds and btw itâs  not just blood. Â
5.)Â Â It HURTS. The pain is comparable to having a heart attack. Once a month. For five days. For 40 (?) years. Â
Thatâs it.Â
Update:Â
6:) This was meant as an overview. Periods are different for every person who has them. They evolve. Thereâs no ânormalâ thereâs just normal for the person having them. Â
