I had an altercation with a guy over a contact photo.
Yes a simple photo use to self-identify an individual on a long and variant list of callers.
A contact photo. He asked and I ignored. He text me the next morn in regards to the blessings that God had placed in my life. I acknowledged the text and told him that I indeed a agreed I’m a firm believer in His works.
Contact photo
I couldn’t believe that he actually let it slide, that easy? Geez they’re normally much more aggressive about receiving their “goods”
Contact photo
& then with a simple brush off of our current conversation he ask me why did I ignore his request?
Contact photo
I was thinking of telling a lie. I fell asleep, I wasn’t at home and my phone died and the people I was with only had androids. Just anything to deter this conversation. Contact photo. But instead I said you know what I’m going to be honest, honesty is always a good thing.
Contact photo
So I tell him “Honestly it’s just so annoying to me when I’m asked that & then if I decide to send a picture there’s always a request to send a fully body pic & etc.. I just don’t get the whole idea of having a contact photo when you just saw/met a person” contact photo
Dude, flips out and goes left on a sista saying that I was accusing him of things and etc. Like dude calm down I didn’t say that I was just giving you my reasoning, this requested as well. Correct?
Contact photo
If you’re a woman like me that has went through this ish forever with dudes, this same little game “send me a pic” now camouflaged with “send me a contact photo” you’ll understand or at least kind of relate to my reasoning. I send him a pic, he admires my beauty, then my thickness, then “our” conversation and “our” time becomes short-lived because every conversation after he’s too sexual, & too aggressive. Here I am annoyed an inexperienced chick to be asked every sexual curiosity under the sun, & I become aggravated and irritated. I ask that we change the nature of the conversation and I’m looked at like I’m crazy.
Contact photo
Will this madness ever stop? Will I just have to accept the nonsense that comes along with it or just continue to stay defiant and ignore their early sought after request, a simple contact photo.
