#sectumsimpra

That SUCKS! I'm so sorry, sweetheart <3

morganabananasims replied to your post “Well, I just got booted out of my FFXIV raid group (after clearing T9...”

Arseburgers. Big burgers of arse. >:( I am sadangry for you! <3

Thank you.  I'm a terrible person but I hope their new WHM sucks and they get stuck on old content because that would really make me

omonasims replied to your post “Well, I just got booted out of my FFXIV raid group (after clearing T9...”

why'd they kick you? :C *hugs* I'm sorry to hear, I hope you feel better and find a reason to play again!

wingstriker replied to your post “Well, I just got booted out of my FFXIV raid group (after clearing T9...”

:( I'm sorry to hear this! What reason did they give for booting you? o.O

Basically, I couldn't get a straight answer from the raid leader.  In his own words, since I joined the group about 6 months ago, I was good then, and I have been constantly and consistently improving and am still improving and am still an extremely skilled player.  BUT apparently they didn't wanna tell me I had things I should focus my efforts on improving (even though all of patch 2.3 is on farm content for us now?) but I still would have worked on things if they had told me there was something wrong.  But really, it all comes down to the fact that I'm almost 90% sure that anything he said to me was an excuse to try and make himself feel better for kicking me out and bringing in a friend.

The three original group members, who I've stuck with through thick and thin this whole patch, just decided to backstab me and toss me out without even SPEAKING to me about possible problems or things they'd like to see improve or whatever.  These are people I thought, until last night, were my friends.  I just feel absolutely betrayed and it really doesn't make me want to join another group (or even be on my server anymore).

I'm patient, I'm willing to help people learn the content if they haven't cleared T9 yet, so it's not that I'm unwilling to deal with a group that's not as advanced as mine was.  It's the fact that the people I'd raided with for 6 months every single week didn't have the balls to tell me 1) that I needed to improve something about my playstyle and if I didn't work on it, run the risk of being removed from the group (which would have made me far less upset).  Or 2) the fact that they wanted to bring in a friend and didn't have the courage to just fucking say that to me.

I dunno.  I'm upset.  I'm trying to let it go.  It's just a really fresh wound right now, sorry for going on a rant. ;_;

sectumsimpra replied to your post “Well, I just got booted out of my FFXIV raid group (after clearing T9...”

seriously tho i'm sorry to hear that ):

verabooray replied to your post “sharlayan replied to your post: “Well, I just got booted out of my...”

Hugs I'm sorry

sharlayan replied to your post “sharlayan replied to your post: “Well, I just got booted out of my...”

Im so sorry about that...;; that's such shit that it even happened..

Yeah I agree.. I sm just angry and super upset still and I dunno.  I am just trying to let it go now, 'cause there's nothing I can do about it.  I just have totally lost the will to even open the game now and that sucks cause I was looking forward to freaking 2.4. :(((

shenkena replied to your post “Well, I just got booted out of my FFXIV raid group (after clearing T9...”

I'm sorry to hear that this happened. That's so upsetting :(