my sixth reason: this has gotten better, generally speaking, but sometimes i think about the underrepresented body types. such as people with hourglass syndrome (something that i have) that causes the stomach to look like the letter āBā. but honestly, thatās more of my self projection.
my seventh reason: one of the biggest issues i have. trying to talk about ocs with someone whoās in this community, but they keep circling around and relating it to tickling. i know people fantasize about my ocs tickling them, and i donāt mind! but when i want to talk about my ocs in a non-tickle intended way, please donāt start listing off the ways my oc can tease you or pin you or fluster you. my characters have feelings. theyāre sensitive, they have emotions, they arenāt just your tickle machines.
my eighth reason: ok, i lied. this is one of my biggest reasons. this community does not understand basic boundaries. there is a sfw side and an nsfw side. letās stay on each otherās designated sides, alright? nsfw blogs, stop liking content from minorsā thats GROSS. sfw blogs, stop liking content from NSFW blogs, thatās equally as GROSS. check the profiles from which you are liking content from. stop reblogging sfw tickle art and branding it as nsfw for your fetish. i donāt care if you get turned on by tickling. i really donāt. but stop liking content and reblogging content from minors (because majority of the tickle artists on here, come on letās be honest, ARE MINORS.) iāve had my fair share of weirdos dming me and liking + reblogging my content, as a minor, and itās disgusting and honestly, hypocritical. iāve had to block 40+ NSFW accounts, and i know bots can exist, ofc, but majority of them were run by actual GROWN ADULTS. now, i say itās hypocritical because the accounts say āMINORS DNIā ect, ect, yet theyāre liking MINORSā content, that usually has āSFWā RIGHT IN THE TAGS.
my ninth reason: iāll be honest. this is something more to do with me. jealousy has honestly because a really big (and unhealthy) part of this community. i know thereās people who donāt admit theyāre jealous of someone else because theyāre getting tickled in front of them, because they donāt want to be labelled as ātoxicā or āclingyā. and itās really sad that the lees in this community feel this way. i was jealous to the point that i would self deprecate. i would have to deafen calls, or leave calls, because i wouldnāt be able to handle someone else being tickled that WASNāT me. and itās sad that i was thinking like that, but it happened.
so these are all the reasons iāve been thinking about in the tickle community. my nine main reasons i want to leave this communityā and so far, i havenāt had a single reason shown to me as in why i shouldnāt leave. now, i donāt want people to start beating themselves up over this, this is not aimed at ANYONE. especially the friends i have made in this community. this is merely just my opinion on how this community has affected my mental health and my social life. again, iām not COMPLETELY set on leaving, but i havenāt been given a single reason as to why i should stay here.
