#scienceoflove

     Finding dates can be difficult, especially when you're horrible at romance like me. Even more so if you’re also queer. But, over the years I have managed to turn my stupidity when it comes to romance, into knowledge of the science of romance. So, on this blog I will be teaching you, through the power of science, how to find and keep love in your lives.

Population

     The first thing you need to figure out is how many potential partners are in your area. Here is an example of the math using the population of New York City. What we need first is the initial population.

 NYC population (2014)- 8,491,079

     Now we can widely that number down by age and gender. We’ll say, for example, you're looking for females between the ages of 15-19.

15-19 Females NYC- 235,417

     Now, the difficult section, finding the percentage of people in that selection that are queer. Dating in the LGBT community has always been difficult for the reason that our dating pool is so small. Thankfully, our example of NYC has a fairly high percentage of queer women, totaling 3.8%.

Queer females~ 61,952

     Okay, but how many of these women are single? 50.2% is the answer.

Single Queer Females~ 31,100

     So, now that we have narrowed the population down to the available people that this example could potentially be attracted to, let's go a step further and discover approximately how many of those individuals you could actually have a good relationship with. First we’d need the percentage of people you are attracted to. Let's use 50% as an example. We’ll also go so far as to assume that about 50% of those people are attracted to you.

Attraction matches~ 7,775

     Now, what percentage of people do you get along with. We’ll use 60% as our example and again assume that 60% of those people get along with you to give us our total number of potential partners.

Total potential partners~ 2,799

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Einstein mengajukan teori relativitas untuk menjelaskan gejala fisika di alam semesta.

dalam ilmu ekonomi, ada hukum yang mengatakan kepuasan akan berkurang seiring bertambahnya frekuensi. piring kedua akan kurang nikmatnya dibanding piring pertama. yg gagas teori ini namanya gossen.

Aku yakin gossen terinspirasi orang yang sakit hati dikhianati. pengkhianatan yg kedua ternyata gak gitu terasa sakitnya dibanding pengkhiatan pertama.

I usually end up in a state where only I and the universe is there. I touch it, it touches me. It stands in front of me. And as I reach it, it compresses, the act like that of dirt sucked by vacuum. It moves as my hands get closer. As it gets inside of me, the psychedelic feeling which crawls into my veins soothes and fills in the emptiness that is felt inside. The once dark and quiet space is turned into a giant, star-filled cosmos full of happenings, and a potential of supporting life. I searched for that potential inside of me, I want to feel alive, hoping I could find someone who I am not sure of the existence. Inside me, I travel, star to star I journeyed, exploring different systems. There’s no hope. There are beautiful places but there were no signs of someone. It is slowly deteriorating. The stars inside me are turning into supernova, one by one. The inside of me is slowly dying.

Completely fed up that there was only I, my universe alone, you came into sight. I never thought of another, I thought I was the only one. Now here you are. Your stars are brighter, your galaxies are bigger, your comets are shinier, your whole universe is the grandest! You looked at mine with all sympathy, I never want other’s sympathy. But you were there in front of me and no one has ever gotten that close to me ever. I’m full of destructions but despite all that, you reached for my hand. Our universes, they merged as we did. You brighten up mine and I dulled up yours. Yet, you told me it’s okay, that we could use a little destruction to start something new. You weren’t afraid, you were different, and you were alone too before we met; you are a universe too, which I thought wasn’t possible at all; you are full of life, and decided to have a little taste of death in able to share some of your life; you were aware about all the dangers but care less about its consequences. Fuck, I’m so in love with you.

Love. Obviously, why else would anyone be flustered at this time of the night? I’d like to think I’ve experienced my fair share of whats out there, the good, the bad, the pure evil like the devil’s spawn. And anytime I was crushing hard on someone it was love. LOVE LOVE LOVE. But was it always love? Eh maybe. The first guy I thought I ever loved was when I was 16. I was young and naive, and he was a good guy. The one that got away kinda. After that, it was someone I thought my family would accept and I had a future with. HA. If there’s one piece of advice I could give to my younger self, or anyone younger really is that you really dont need to think so far ahead, because whats that really going to do for you when reality hits and BAM your parents are asking you if youre dating anyone and its not the guy you thought you’d spend the rest of your life with when you were 18. Lol. And after him, man oh man the next guy. If someone ever tells you that a break up physically can hurt you, they are 100000% correct. This was the most painful thing I’ve ever been through. It hurt my brain thinking about him, and that gut wrenching feeling, ugh...like you have absolutely no control over anything in your life and you want to stop feeling everything. If anyone is going through that now, let me tell you, it all passes with time. It sucks, but it does go away. Between that, another guy waltzed in and out of my life, and it hurt. But after a while I realized that was just an infatuation. So is it possible to be in love more then once? Was I ever really in love with any of them? I dont know about the first two, but the gut wrenching guy, I think I was. But this time, this time its different. He came into my life out of no where, definitely not my type so I didnt see it at first. He was awkward, and sweet, and the first guy to not make a perverted comment when I mentioned I was home alone. He had me hooked, cause lets be honest, how often to sweet guys come along? I felt like the prettiest girl in the world, and I felt like the luckiest girl to have him. He made it seem like he was lucky to have me, and we were great, amazing, wonderful, so full of love. Like actual love. Unconditional, weirdly emotional,googly oeey gooey love. I knew I was in love when I found myself praying for him along with my family at night. Also when we went to Montreal, I was crying at the club to him because I realized I loved him lol ugh love. So why am I up now writing all this? To vent I guess. My friend says relationships are like roller coasters, they have their ups and downs. But I think in relationships, people go through phases. Someone always like the other person more, and vice versa. But I feel stuck. I thought we were even, but I don’t think so anymore. I love him more and more ever day but I feel like his love has just plateaued. That sucks. Anytime I’m upset over a guy, I always listen to this podcast, Your Brain on a Break up from stuff mom never told you. I don’t know why, it makes me feel good, and I’ve listened to it more times then I’d like to mention. Basically. they say that studies have been conducted on post break up miserable sad people to prove that its all in your head. Long story short, when you’re in love, reward neurons are firing off and when you’re deprived from love, or you feel rejected its those neurons going even more crazy because there’s no reward. Now don’t quote me on this, its just the gist of it. So I am up at 2 am blaming my reward neurons. Damn you! I just want my neurons to calm down, and be cool. Is that too much to ask for brain? WHO’S SIDE ARE YOU ON, MINE OR HIS?! All of this makes you think though, is love all fairytales and butterflies, or just the right neurological pathways being made at the right time. Makes you feel like lame about being in love, if its all just in your head. Now imagine if there was ever a pill to control those neurons, it would sell like hot cakes! I know I’d want to use them. But then again, there’s a lot to learn from break ups. I know I learned a lot from the gut wrench guy. I want to believe love is real, but its soothing knowing it might just be physical and not a magical thing. So I guess I’ll just leave it up in the air, is love real, all in your head, or some where in the middle?