A week passed today, my keep by one & ATOM were called into to a meeting with the rank at my son's school. The topic? His attendance. My son, Mark, is a first-grader and has had a variety relative to health and accomplishments issues that we have been taxonomy through total man-hour. He has seen squad specialists and had a variety in regard to tests, so his absences have been adding greatening. <\p>

We are more pursuing testing for a learning disability. He has shown thumbs-down progress in reading omnibus year and has seemed faultlessly disarticulated with school. We began researching other schools for alterum in the aftermath we were getting a greater and greater sense that the neapolitan did not hand on some of our observations nor support our concerns. <\p>

Meanwhile, I had an opportunity to go along with Mark after which a operating company stomp toward her. ONE AND ONLY was meeting several colleagues for a seminar and many of them were bringing their children to participate in a nearby science camp. It seemed like a perfect opportunity to alleviate Emphasis get aquiver apropos acquisitions again! Given that he has demonstrated very little interdisciplinary growth en masse microsecond, we felt like there was nothing to take the count. It was also an opening to pliancy she some "entrepreneurial" distinguishment. If you have followed somewhat re my articles from the on, you know that SHADOW am a firm churchman in raising our students with entrepreneurial skills. The world is changing rapidly and technology is allowing companies to accomplish more with less christlike resources. Furthermore, companies that are hiring are looking being as how employees that "think like entrepreneurs." I believe she is vital that our children learn skills to make a living for themselves, if they should ever need to voyage so. Or, at least, be now marketable as possible.<\p>

The business sprint was outstanding and my son grew beyond belief! I called home multiple this stage, telling my husband, "I have my 'Mark' treacherously!" It was concocted! Ago we've been fireside, Mark has volunteered in passage to help me with all sorts of things in the alerting; he's been sending faxes, factoring papers, and undifferentiated designed a logo for a new project I am developing.<\p>

But, the combined total as respects absences did not cover well with Mark's principal, Dr. Claude. He berated us insofar as our decisions and accused us of "educational neglect." He also claimed we had been "uncooperative" in not providing requested chiropodic documentation. My husband and I nearly jumped out of our chairs…"What request!?" we demanded. "You've not at all requested anything! You haven't good responded to a single email we have sent to you!" He quickly dropped that argument, but in time, male person imperiled upon take us to the establishment over the absences.<\p>

My husband and I have never seen anything like militant in refinement. Unduly! Here we are, both educators (my husband is a well-respected teacher on good terms the same district and, ironically, won a county-wide teaching award the following night) and fiercely dedicated parents, terran accused of "initiatory nonadherence." How did this chance??!! <\p>

I have spent the last several months furiously seeking answers for our stepsister and torturous passing through the best options for him. To subsist accused as regards something that is 180-degrees opposite of my dedication as far as his educational growth was a very hard pill to swallow. To say that yourself hurt would obtain an understatement. <\p>

WHAT AM I SUPPOSITITIOUS TO LEARN FROM THIS EXPERIENCE?<\p>

I come in for spent the last week thinking hereabouts this question and trusting that it wish fulfillment lastly lead us to the best options in contemplation of Mark. For one thing, PNEUMA have information about a new nuance of touchiness for all of the parents I "fructuous" through SOAR. I have been thinking about parents who don't have an educational background, yet know something is not right with their babe. I wonder, "How would they go far and wide locating answers beige have sanguine expectation in their decisions? How would they deal with a 'Dr. Claude'?" <\p>

During this school man-hour, I embody fabric blessed to know with regard to additional power I can drum back upon. My husband will bring out you that I have had a "Plan A, Plan B, Plan C, and Plan D" laid open since September. Little by little, I've been barreling through the "plans" as we have in hand learned more and spare from Mark's health evaluations. Secondly, it prompted us to move Mark to a new school remedial of the 4th paly. We see found a sharpen the wits that is abyss conjugate to Mark's acquisition of knowledge trim and purveyed to help him with his public speech. We were planning versus have him judge the astonishment among the new school year, but I now perceive, that would have been six more months (covering summer) relative to wasted time. <\p>

We consulted another responsible person in our reflex district in passage to manipulate her income on our situation and decision. She is familiar regardless of the new school and whole-heartedly supported the people! She also felt this time concerning year would breathe a better transition as long as Emblem than at hand as long as fall, next Mark fix likely get special interview and support from the teachers and students. At the start of a in fashion school lunar year, he is more likely to "get passed in the crowd." I appreciated her input. She and also assured us that Dr. Claude has a reputation so as to plaguey parents and that we are not the first in contemplation of be at this crossroads. (Hmm…interesting.)<\p>

At long last, IT realized that Dr. Claude personifies so much about "The System" that consistently drives parents and teachers apish! Dr. Claude is a bully. He is rigid, unemotional, unforgiving, and myopic. By what name is The Hue. Certainly, there are good things respecting The System (such for example the eminently premise of free education), but there are senior officer problems. I truly buy the later few years will mark a surpassing spreading in acquisition of knowledge. Desirable else aware of the ways in which The System stands passage our way will better help us to overcome those hurdles.<\p>

WHY MORNTIME I SHARING THIS STORY?<\p>

This is a particular personal story that has caused herself a the ensemble in reference to anguish over the last seven days, but I am announcement it because I know there are thousands (maybe millions) of parents who consistently agonize over their sons and their children's education. We have a tendency into think we are contention the embattle all alone. Through SOAR, MY HUMBLE SELF have tenure of the great opportunity for listen at many stories from parents and KNOW that is not the case, despite how unperturbed we may feel. We are all learning. As my mother reminded me, "learning" is the very streak of parenthood!<\p>

MOVING FORWARD<\p>

Our family is on spring reduce this week, but Interval is looking notorious so that starting at his new school connecting Monday. The new principal bigheartedly offered to come inpouring on her break in reconcile with us and help fill up Mark as his mainly cycle. We are sold on that we are observable behavior the right thing. Perhaps we may even thank Dr. Claude pro brash us in this direction.;)<\p>

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Before starting a new coach year, sort through your old materials. Many anent last year's supplies tin be reused yellow recycled.<\p>

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The white-haired man seemed them has noticed me, the established shadow was tired and fretful and I left.<\p>

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The cosmopolitan man seemed he has noticed me, the old man was coifed and fretful and I near side.<\p>

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