"No one is irredeemable"
It will take time. It will take effort.
Those you've hurt may not forgive you. That's their right, especially after you've hurt hem. It'll hurt, but it shouldn't discourage you from continuing to get better.
You'll find people who will love the person you've become and applaud you for changing. You can get better. You can be the you that you want to be. It doesn't need to be a fantasy.
I've noticed this fandom has extreme black and white thinking. Yes, Jax isn't a morally grey character- He's a bad person. But you can see deep down he doesn't want to be. This doesn't excuse his behavior, and he deserves to face the consequences of his actions, but...
Chances are, they're stuck together for a long time. I think if she works on herself, she may just be able to earn some kindness. That's a very human thing, isn't it? That's..Realistic.
That's what I love about this show. they're all so very human despite the goofy cartoon designs.
I've known many jax's in my life. Some I had to let go because I couldn't forgive them, and that's natural. But some I've watched to become amazing people. And I think, at some point in my life, I might've been a jax too. My middle school phase was BAD, man.
I think the people who judge the character that is Jax so harshly either are blind to this, or are purposefully covering their ears and yelling over the logic.
