#salsa anon

i'm kind of new to this asking for advice thing, so i guess i just start?

um, so i am biologically a girl, and i feel like a girl, and i've always identified as one, but i WISH i was a boy if that makes sense. i'm just jealous of them i guess, and i almost want to be one, but i don't get body dysmorphia or anything, i just wish i had been born a boy. but i also don't think i am one, i am a girl. so i don't really understand what... that is.

also, someone used they/them pronouns for me the other day and i've always used she/her but it gave me such a rush. i loved it, like even thinking about it i feel like i just got a boost of serotonin! i probably would prefer using they them pronouns, but am i still allowed to do that if i identify as a girl? and this comes back to the gender thing, too... i wish i was a boy, but i'm not, and i feel comfortable in my own body most of the time - i don't want a gender reassigning surgery or anything. but the other day i got this bra which was kind of like a sports bra and since i have a small chest it basically served as a binder and i LOVED it. i loved the feeling. but sometimes i also wish i had a bigger chest. so i don't really understand it. i identify as a girl, and identifying as a boy or as nonbinary just doesn't feel right, but i still want to use neutral pronouns. but even though i wish i had been a boy, using he/him pronouns feels wrong, and she/her feels right... and they/them feels the most right but i don't feel nonbinary???

i'm just really confused. sorry if this doesn't make sense. no pressure if you can't help.

thanks for listening <3

Hi hon! <3

Okay so first of all- not saying you're trans, but not all trans people feel dysphoria or want surgery. It's not a requirement.

But as far as you go- Have you heard of the term demigirl? It's someone who identifies partially with a girl, but not wholly or not always. Check this out!

Also, no matter how you identify, you can use whatever pronouns you want. There are no pronoun police, and if there are, tell them to come to me, because I'll take their badges away <3

valid, I still go on anon on my mutuals' blogs sometimes... some things are better said without them seeing your pfp

Ok valid

But I also literally eat chips and salsa at the speed of light

Like I pick up the chip and scoop/dip (depending on the amount of liquid of lack of chunk in sauce) and then I eat it and like I do this while I chew the previous chip

I just feel like this is the superior way to eat chips and salsa

Ok now follow up follow up question

i think demigirl sounds right to me! i feel a little shaky about it just because it's weird to me to think i'm not cis - because i always have been - but i can get over that like i did with realizing i wasn't straight haha (religious trauma woo wooo)

thank you so much <3

AAAAAAA!

- local frightened salsa anon, now going into hiding

He stares and stares. Then. He suddenly lets out a burst of laughter.