It's scary how on point she is to some extent. For Cancers it is all about feeling secure and at home. They are not actually asking for much. As long as you show them enough appreciation, attention, and show that you care for them, it's more than enough. Cancers are actually very positive people.They like to analyze the past, study from it, and would think about how to do things differently to make things better (in a natural way) with their new love interest. A Cancer is also in its nature very protective of themselves. So in contrary to popular belief, itâs not that they are overly protective of their love interest, but theyâre just actually protecting their own heart. Their biggest fear is actually them getting hurt. Cancers also like to enjoy companionship and are very open to trying new things with their partner. They are actually adventurous, but also very cautious. They are easily content. They offer comfort and loyalty. In turn, they just want reassurance from their partner. Â
Sagittarius are straightforward people that sometimes they donât filter what they say. Hence, Cancers feel easily hurt by Sagittarius' words because Sagittarius are simply very outspoken and point blank honest. If taken in a positive way, itâs a reassuring feeling that they are the type of people who you can count on to call out things as it is. But, as their partner you have to be ready not to take it offensively.
Sagittarius enjoy and respect freedom. They are independent and feel that they can be trusted. Theyâll simply look around for pleasure, but they wonât do anything stupid to jeopardize the relationship they already build because they are very faithful towards their partner. This is also because they are very picky people too. They donât just want to waste their time for anyone not worthy of his/her presence.Â
They trust that by giving you freedom, youâd also do the same for them. They are, in the beginning, commitment-phobic and can come across as flaky. Sometimes theyâre unrealistic with what they promise. Not that they do not want to keep their promises, but sometimes they say things that they might not have thought through and can get into trouble because of it. If the partner isnât understanding enough, they might think that Sagittarius are liars for not being able to keep their word. On a deeper level, Sagittarius actually wants to eventually settle down if they feel like theyâve found someone they feel comfortable and can be themselves with their partner.
The misconception of Sagittarius with Cancers are that they donât have enough space to do what they want and feel trapped, and Cancers come across as needy, clingy, and overly sensitive. But really, Cancers donât mind that Sagittarius do their own thing so long as they both can balance and divide their time, love and attention towards each other. Cancers can enjoy freedom too.Â
In fact, because Cancers are the type of people who like to put the needs and wants of their partner first, whenever they do get the chance to be independent, thatâs the time they want to shine the most on their own. Cancers do work with their mood. Sometimes they like to be alone in the comfort of their home, other times they like to socialize and meet new people. In truth, the real hardest parts for Cancers are that they do want their independence and freedom as an individual, but their nurturing side sometimes can be overpowering even for themselves. They feel that if they donât show their partner that they care, theyâd think theyâve done something bad/wrong and/or they blame themselves for not being good enough. Cancers pride themselves for giving the best and 110% devotion to the needs and wants of their partner because theyâre romantic in general. Sagittarius donât feel the need to always be shown affection or give affection. Theyâre just very easy-breezy about it. Again, if Sagittariusâpartner have difficulty accepting these qualities, theyâre going to have a hard time with each other. Sagittarius have their own discrete way of showing affection, as oppose to Cancers who are very expressive.
Therefore, itâs simply a matter of communicating things and giving each other a deep understanding of what they need and want from each other. Â
Another thing that a Sagittariusâ partner should know is that, Sagittarius donât like to be put on the spot. So if you want a long healthy relationship, find a way to communicate better with each other without making Sagittarius feel cornered and uncomfortable. Theyâll automatically get into defense mode and try to find a way out of it. Sagittarius can be blunt with people, but when people do it to them, theyâll feel emasculated and want to back out or run away immediately. Sagittarius likes to criticize people, but has a hard time facing and accepting facts about themselves and being criticized by others.
The great news is that they actually both like to grow in their relationships together. They like to learn and support each other. Even if Sagittarius likes to run in the fields like horses, theyâd still want to come back to a comforting place that Cancers can offer. On the other hand, Cancers can learn many new things from Sagittarius who are like a learning-sponge.
