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Ruby Dhal

#Repost @r.dhalwriter with @get_repost ・・・ What would you fight for apart from love? I would fight for the right to dream. A page from my book ‘Memories Unwound’ which is available to purchase from the link in my bio! Signed copies can be purchased from rubydhal.bigcartel.com. Sending you all unconditional love! 💕 #rubydhal @r.dhalwriter https://www.instagram.com/p/BpFTNR-l38R/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=lgx2qcmpo4rf

Ruby Dhal

Ruby Dhal

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r I am learning that it isn’t my job to make people good, that I don’t need to make others realize what they did wrong if they don’t see it themselves. I am learning that loving isn’t easy. Loving doesn’t always mean waking up in the morning with your person by your side, popping a kiss on their head and slipping out to make breakfast. Loving isn’t always laughter, or smiles, or long, easy days. Loving isn’t always gentle. Loving is the struggle to keep yourself together when you watch them fall apart. Loving is holding their hand on the darkest day of the year to tell them that you’re by their side. Loving is not giving up on them even when they want to give up on themselves. Loving is holding, believing, and battling it all the way. I am learning that some people won’t accept you, no matter how hard you try. You will give them your everything, but they won’t see the light that shines in your eyes. I am learning that kindness isn’t always returned with kindness and friendship often with pain, and sometimes you make mistakes that you wish you didn’t, and you lose people whom you wanted to stay, but nothing that you do can stop them from going far away from you. I am learning that healing and hurting often come hand in hand, that the journey is messy, non-linear and often filled with enough challenges that make you want to give up. But life is beautiful, experiences add color and people, they are what makes everything worthwhile. I am learning that I don’t need to have everything figured out and I just need to look at my own time-scale, rather than focusing on what other people are doing in their lives. I need to focus on me. Direct all that energy inside my own mind and soul and hope that it allows some magic to grow. I am learning that I will continue learning today, tomorrow and in the days that follow. I will experience things that break me, and bring me joy, and enlighten me in vibrant ways. I will keep learning until I will feel wiser, kinder and more whole. Even then, I will continue learning because there is so much within this world to learn, there is so much that I need to know, there is lots of room left to grow. Ctto: #rubydhal https://www.instagram.com/p/B82sRAHne1c/?igshid=1mulmofypq2wl

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