Day 3456, of waiting for staff to fix the redirect with certain horror tags.
seen from South Africa

seen from Brazil

seen from United States
seen from Malaysia

seen from Malaysia

seen from Germany
seen from United Kingdom

seen from United States
seen from Germany
seen from TĂźrkiye
seen from China
seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from China
seen from United States
seen from China
seen from TĂźrkiye

seen from United States
Day 3456, of waiting for staff to fix the redirect with certain horror tags.

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch ⢠No registration required ⢠HD streaming
The Root of the Problem
The Root of the Problem
Long-winded and verbose, typically does not equate to insightful, or even, necessarily, sane. Often the briefest statements are the most important: such as the Magna Carta, The Declaration of Independence, or the UN Declaration of Human Rights. In the spirit of concision with compellng clarity, and hopefully, a clarion call to action, I give you this. And remember, Habeas Corpus, The Great Writ,âŚ
View On WordPress
New Post has been published on Crown of Compassion
New Post has been published on https://www.crownofcompassion.org/2019/01/20/never-dealing-with-the-root-problem/
Never dealing with the root problem
âThe Bible attributes a great many evils to this other [intangible] heart. . . . we tend to reach for remedies to address our symptoms without ever really dealing with the root problem. And so the symptoms never seem to go away.â- Andy Stanley
In Chapter 2 (âAll Is Not As It Seemsâ) of Enemies of the Heart, Andy Stanley notes that behavior isnât always an accurate indicator of whatâs going on inside your physical or spiritual heart. Pastor Stanley illustrates his point using a pear tree as an example.
Suppose your yard contained a pear tree that produced an abundance of pears every year. Since this tree yields so many pears, it canât bear the weight of all its fruit. As a result, your yard becomes a sea of pears. Thus, itâs difficult to cut your grass. And the rotting pears smell awful.
However, picking up all the pears only serves as a temporary solution. Sooner or later, you must repeat the process. Therefore, you need to take a more permanent approach.
And, Pastor Stanley observes, thatâs (picking up) precisely the way we need to deal with our heart problems. We pick up and apologize â with all sincerity. But then we repeat our mistakes. Also, we blame and explain. Yet, nothing really changes. So, if the solution involved changing a few behaviors, you already would have detected them. If you only needed to try harder, the problem would be licked by now.
Finally, Andy uses the example of a verbal outburst to explain his point about a root problem:
âYou think that outburst was an exception. And in one way it was. It was an exception to your general rule of not allowing whatâs in your heart to be exposed to the rest of the world. But . . . that embarrassing outburst wasnât an exception to whatâs in your heart. Indeed, it was a reflection of whatâs really swirling around down there (emphasis authorâs).â
Todayâs question: What Bible verses help you in dealing with the root problem in your heart? Please share.
Tomorrowâs blog: the new Short Meditation, âA snowball in your faceâ
New Post has been published on Crown of Compassion
New Post has been published on https://www.crownofcompassion.org/2019/01/19/spiritual-heart-disease-the-root-problem/
Spiritual heart disease - the root problem
âWeâre tempted to treat the ancillary, symptomatic challenges that stem from an unhealthy heart while ignoring the deeper issues. . . . eventually the root problem will become a real problem . . . . so spiritual heart disease has the potential to destroy you and squeeze the life out of your most valuable relationships.â- Andy Stanley
âI will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.â- Ezekiel 36:26 (NIV)
Andy Stanley concludes Chapter 1 of Enemies of the Heart as he states that when you notice things starting to slip a bit, thatâs merely a symptom of a deeper struggle.  For example, although youâve contained your anger previously, now thereâs an edge in your voice. It even scares you. Consequently, your heart is under assault. And you might even be losing. Primarily, Andy notes , through neglect.
Furthermore, the following statements provide evidence of an internal battle:
âI canât believe I just said/did that.â
âI donât know where that came from.â
âThatâs not like me.â
Therefore, in Enemies of the Heart, Pastor Stanley identifies four primary enemies of the heart. Next, he challenges us to embrace four new habits of the heart. Thus, change must happen from the inside out. In other words, we need a heart capable of keeping pace with our outward obedience.
Finally, at some point in life, each of us must face the painful truth that all is not well. Since weâre still a work in progress, some heart work still needs to be done. Just remember, Andy counsels, your heart didnât develop itâs present condition overnight. So, it wonât get healthier overnight either. Pastor Stanley explains:
âYou canât over come in an instant the effects of years of blockage caused by guilt, anger, greed, and jealousy. Adopting new habits of the heart is a process that will yield some immediate results.â
Todayâs question: What do you see as the root problem causing your spiritual heart disease? Please share.
Tomorrowâs blog: âNever dealing with the root problemâ
Conflict is inevitable. Combat is optional. Conflict is not inherently bad. Conflict is not some noxious weed that needs to be eradicated from the organizational garden. In fact, conflictâwhen itâs handled appropriatelyâcan lead to breakthrough solutions. Here are some helpful tips.
There are several key takeaways from Rodger Dean Duncanâs article Productive Conflict Is Not An Oxymoron. He speaks about the importance of what I would call productive communication. This entails several different characteristics, how to approach sensitive issues, how to find the root of the problem by asking good questions, and how to actively listen and respond to the answers you receive. This is an important process to follow, as skirting issues only wastes time and resources, and causes frustration further down the road.

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch ⢠No registration required ⢠HD streaming
My best friend acted like a total douche the other day and it was so unlike him that I honestly wanted to punch him in the face. I didnt talk to him for a few days and I still haven't... he apologized for saying what he said, but im still so shocked (and im not gonna lie, hurt) by what he said that I still dont even want to talk to him. I know its kind of petty, but I am pretty pisssed off that he jumped down my throat the way he did and assumed the worst of me... thoughts?
Okay, my thoughtsâŚbest friends are like family, they can dig deep and it hurts. However, there is usually an underlying reason. I would think deep on that and it will help if you start communicating again.I always try to apologize for my actions because I mess up all the time haha but I know deep down when I do something dumb, there is an underlying reason to why I acted out in that fashion.Go to the ROOT ; ) Itâs not a fun conversation but itâs worth it and you will both grow from it.i actually just blew up on one of my best friends and apologized but I know there is several reasons I acted the way I did and we will work it out eventually.None of us are perfect but our character will be defined by the actions we follow up with.Lastly, Grudges are the worst, itâs like CANCER. Donât let someone elses actions keep you down. Clearing with them is really important for the both of you.Keep me posted on what you do. It will all work out!Lift Life!