You’re the Headliner
Today, a friend reminded me of something I didn’t know I needed to hear.
“You're not an option. You're the headliner.”
He said it with a laugh, but it landed like a quiet truth.
He continued:
“If the main event cancels, the whole show cancels. But if you're just the opening act, you're easy to replace. You should never be treated like the opening act. You're the main event.”
It wasn’t just about concerts — it was about how I move through life.
How I let myself be seen. How I protect my energy. How I remember my own value even when I’m tired.
I admitted to him I hadn’t posted for two days. I’d been super busy and honestly , just trying to stay afloat. And his reply was:
“Pahinga muna hehe. There's grace in rest.”
That line held me.
So today, I’m reminding myself:
There’s grace in slowing down. There’s power in choosing presence. And I am not here to be optional.
I am here to show up as I am , gently, steadily, fully. Still the headliner, even in rest.
With softness and strength, Divine
