#representativity

i can’t believe elias is a canonical stoner i love this

Representation matters - everywhere, in all different kinds of places. I started aikido because I saw a friendly non-Japanese my age training in the dojo where we enrolled our kid and who was clearly well liked and respected by everyone else. I figured everyone was welcome, despite my very poor language skills and ridiculous hand-foot, left-right coordination. There were a few women practicing, but all were already black belts, so it was almost daunting actually. There were next to no white belts, and none who were over 20. Today, less than two years later, I realize that we are now several “old” white belts (read: over 30). More than half are women, and a few are non-Japanese. Everyone has told me at some point that it was because they saw me on the mats.  So to all of you out there, practicing martial arts or something else, and who stand out from the crowd for whatever reason, know that you can actually make a difference for other people. Not that you need to become a “role model” or be exceptional or outstanding. Sometimes it’s just enough “to be there” and “to do it” to encourage perfect strangers to take that one step. I’m so happy I got that chance.

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