May 29
I genuinely still don’t understand the idea that straight relationships involving (at least) one bisexual still “counts” as a queer relationship.. not hating I genuinely just… how… my cis bi sister and her cishet bf are not in a queer relationship it’s literally just a straight relationship 😭😭😭 most relationships like hers are not culturally queer (iykwim) nor are they between two trans people and/or two people of the same gender… so.. ? What makes it queer ?? Someone’s potential sexual involvement or attraction to another person? Which is, in most common cases because most people want monogamous relationships, completely irrelevant to the current relationship ?
#if they’re both bi I kinda get it that they would both bond over being bi so I understand more. but like.#like I feel like it kinda depends on the individual relationship. you cannot just be going around w your cishet bf talking about your queer#relationship.#IR MAKES NO SENSE TO ME..#and ngl the recent ‘femboy’ obsession among men …. dawg if your bf is ‘technically bi’ bc he likes#fictional or onscreen femboys ONLY because they’re ’close enough’ ….. well my point still stands#I feel like I will always be confused about this LMFAOOO#even if you’re trans like. I feel like most of the time your cis jakey doesn’t see anything queer about your relationship. sorry.#people are way too accepting of chasers..#JUST MY THIUGHTS IDK LOL
