May 29
I genuinely still donât understand the idea that straight relationships involving (at least) one bisexual still âcountsâ as a queer relationship.. not hating I genuinely just⌠how⌠my cis bi sister and her cishet bf are not in a queer relationship itâs literally just a straight relationship đđđ most relationships like hers are not culturally queer (iykwim) nor are they between two trans people and/or two people of the same gender⌠so.. ? What makes it queer ?? Someoneâs potential sexual involvement or attraction to another person? Which is, in most common cases because most people want monogamous relationships, completely irrelevant to the current relationship ?
#if theyâre both bi I kinda get it that they would both bond over being bi so I understand more. but like.#like I feel like it kinda depends on the individual relationship. you cannot just be going around w your cishet bf talking about your queer#relationship.#IR MAKES NO SENSE TO ME..#and ngl the recent âfemboyâ obsession among men âŚ. dawg if your bf is âtechnically biâ bc he likes#fictional or onscreen femboys ONLY because theyâre âclose enoughâ âŚ.. well my point still stands#I feel like I will always be confused about this LMFAOOO#even if youâre trans like. I feel like most of the time your cis jakey doesnât see anything queer about your relationship. sorry.#people are way too accepting of chasers..#JUST MY THIUGHTS IDK LOL
