Unrelated post compared to the usual.
It has been a week since my boyfriend asked for space after us having a big fight. During those times, I kept on messaging him asking him if he wants to talk about it already. He would then reply with “you should be resting / we need more time / use this time to think about things / go spend more time with your family and friends because you need them more / we need to rest because a lot of toxic things have happened.”
I then waited for a week to pass by before messaging him once again. I told him that we should talk about it already because it has already been a week since the space begun (this has been by far the longest space we’ve had), and that I’m ready to hear whatever he has to say to me. He replied “You should wait. Don’t hasten things up since you still don’t know what I’ll be saying to you. Respect the space I asked from you, use this time to think. If you keep this up, don’t blame me when I block you from all of my social media accounts. I won’t even try to entertain you if you plan on coming here at my place just to talk to me. We need this space, and if you can’t do that then let’s stop already.”
Now, I’m not going to make any more attempts to “chase” him just for us to communicate. I’ll let him have this space. I’m worried that I made things worse instead of letting him have his space. I consulted with my friends and they said that he’s going to break up with me after this space, especially that he refuses all of my attempt to communicate with him. Although, one of his close friends told me that he’s not the type to ghost people, and that he still has high respect for women, And I have been overthinking that he’s planning on calling it quits after this space.
Should I be worried? Is he planning on ending our relationship? Did I make matters worse? I love him so much and I want to fix our relationship so bad, I want to make things work. There’s still a chance if we just talk about it, if we just compromise with one another.
