#relationshigoals

By this time I’ve heard from several friends that they believe you can experience love (meaning legit love – L – O – V - E love) only once. And it makes them sad to know they had their shot and don’t have chance for real love anymore.

Well, I say they shouldn’t be sad.  If they are 100% and more sure that it was LOVE, not infatuation, affection, attachment, addiction, passion, loneliness, but L-O-V-E then why the hack did they let it go?! Really, nothing makes me more sad (sugar coat for “pisses me off”) than a person who was granted with the gift of L-O-V-E, but was too selfish, proud, scared or the worst – lazy to preserve it.

As a person who didn’t receive this gift in romantic form yet I can’t forgive such individuals. And as a person who was blessed with love through family, friends, work (haha, yeah, I’m one of these mythical creatures who love their jobs), charity and humanity in general I cannot understand them.

How can you say goodbye to something you know is perfect for you? How can you let go someone who you can make happy? How can you abandon someone who can make you happy? (*mind the word order*)

Wtf, man (sorry for not sugar covering it, but really come on!)? Just explain it, maybe I’m too simple to understand it.

But then there are people who doubt whether or not they had their shot (a.k.a. real love). I know it’s banal, but if you doubt it than it wasn’t love at all. This phenomenon was masterly explained in HIMYM (see the link below).

And if it was not real love, than you must stop being sad and be awesome instead (I’m totally digging HIMYM vibes today). All I want to say is: if it was real than go and fight for it and you’ll see that it worth every effort and every second of your time. But if you have doubts stop brooding over it and enjoy two amazing things happening in your life: 1) being single and opened to new experiences 2) knowing that the greatest of this experiences - L-O-V-E is still expecting you.