A Guide for Women with Good Hearts, Good Intentions, and a Sense of Responsibility

Being responsible with consent goes both ways. If you don’t want to falsely accuse a man—whether out of regret, social pressure, or unclear communication—here’s how to ensure you’re staying accountable and acting with integrity.

🔍 BEFORE THE HOOKUP: Set Clear Boundaries

✔️ Know What You Want – If you’re unsure about whether you actually want to hook up, don’t do it. Hesitation is a sign to wait. ✔️ Speak Up If You’re Uncomfortable – If you’re already second-guessing before anything happens, that’s your answer. Say no. Leave. ✔️ Choose Environments Where You Feel Safe – If you’re feeling pressured or unsafe from the start, that’s a red flag to walk away. ✔️ Don’t Ignore Your Instincts – If something feels off, trust that feeling before engaging, not after. ✔️ Be Aware of Alcohol & Substances – If you can’t make a clear decision, it’s best to wait until you can.

🔥 DURING THE HOOKUP: Communicate & Take Ownership

✔️ Use Your Words, Not Just ‘Vibes’ – Men cannot read minds. If you don’t want something, say it directly. ✔️ Stop the Encounter If You’re Uncomfortable – If you change your mind mid-way, say no and remove yourself. It’s okay to stop. ✔️ Don’t Assume He Knows What You’re Thinking – If you’re feeling uneasy but not saying anything, that’s on you. ✔️ Actively Participate or Clearly Withdraw – If you’re engaging, you’re consenting. If you’re not, make it obvious. ✔️ If You Want to Leave, Leave – No one is forcing you to stay. If you feel uncomfortable, don’t wait—remove yourself.

🚨 AFTER THE HOOKUP: Be Honest With Yourself & Others

✔️ Separate ‘Bad Sex’ From Assault – If you had a meh experience, that’s not a crime. Disappointment ≠ Assault. ✔️ Take Responsibility for Your Choices – If you consented at the time, don’t rewrite history the next day. ✔️ Be Aware of Social Pressures – If your friends judge you for the hookup, don’t falsely claim you were coerced to save face. ✔️ Reflect on Your Feelings Honestly – If you willingly engaged, but later wish you hadn’t, that’s regret—not assault. ✔️ If He Didn’t Violate Consent, Don’t Ruin His Life – False accusations destroy lives. Be truthful, not emotional.

🔚 FINAL VERDICT: Protect Your Integrity & Others’ Reputations

Consent isn’t a game of charades. Use your words.

If you say yes, own it. If you say no, enforce it.

If he did nothing wrong, don’t let emotions, regret, or peer pressure twist the truth.

Truth matters. Real victims deserve to be heard—false accusations only make it harder for them.

Real talk: If you’re so paralyzed with fear that you can’t even say “No” or “Stop” to a man who isn’t threatening you, then maybe, just maybe, you shouldn’t be playing grown-up games like sex in the first place.

Because here’s how reality works: ✔️ Kids don’t drive cars because they’re not ready for the responsibility. ✔️ Toddlers don’t use the stove because they’ll burn themselves. ✔️ And if you can’t fcking communicate like an adult, maybe you shouldn’t be fcking at all.

Being a grown woman means taking responsibility for your own boundaries. If you stay silent, go along with it, and then feel bad later, that’s not a crime—that’s your own f*cking cowardice.

“He should have known I wasn’t into it.” Nah, you should have known how to speak up.

Ah yes, the new dating standard: ✔️ Say yes. ✔️ Actively engage. ✔️ Go along with everything. ✔️ Wake up feeling weird and rewrite history.

Congratulations! You’ve just discovered post-sex time travel, where men must decode your hidden discomfort through telepathy, chakra energy, and ancient Mayan astrology. 🔮✨

Because actual words like ‘No’ and ‘Stop’ are just TOO HARD, right?

Ladies, if you can verbally order a f*cking latte, you can verbally withdraw consent.

Otherwise, you didn’t get assaulted—you just made a dumb f*cking decision. 🤡💀

TL;DR – Feeling Bad After Sex Isn’t Assault. It’s Called Regret. Own It.

We’ve officially entered a batsh*t reality where women can have consensual sex, decide after the fact that they didn’t like it, and suddenly—boom, it’s assault.

Welcome to the new feminism. Where accountability is a myth, and bad decisions come with get-out-of-responsibility-free cards labeled "victimhood."

📌 The New Rules of ‘Consent’ (a.k.a. How to Destroy a Man in 3 Easy Steps)

✔️ Step 1: Say Yes. ✔️ Step 2: Participate Willingly. ✔️ Step 3: Decide Later That It Was Actually Assault.

Congratulations! You’ve just weaponized regret and turned a sh*tty night into a legal minefield for an innocent man!

The worst part? It’s actually working.

🔥 The Aziz Ansari Case: How a Bad Date Became a #MeToo Crime Scene

Let’s break it down.

A woman named “Grace” went out with comedian Aziz Ansari. ✔️ She flirted. ✔️ She went back to his place. ✔️ She let him go down on her. ✔️ She even returned the favor. ✔️ She stayed and didn’t say no.

Next day? 🚨 "I felt violated." 🚨

Why?

Because she felt awkward.

Because she wasn’t super into it.

Because he didn’t pick up on her “non-verbal cues” that she was uncomfortable.

And somehow, this became a national conversation about ‘sexual misconduct’—instead of what it actually was: a grown woman regretting a bad night and looking for someone to blame.

Ladies, if your "trauma" requires a next-day epiphany, it was never f*cking trauma.

🛑 NEWSFLASH: Men Can’t Read Your F*cking Mind.

What the f*ck are "non-verbal cues" anyway?

A side-eye? A deep sigh? An awkward shuffle?

Hoping he "just knows" you’re uncomfortable while actively engaging?

That’s not f*cking communication. That’s called playing a game where only the guy gets punished when he loses.

Consent isn’t a puzzle for men to solve. It’s your responsibility to speak the f*ck up.

⚠️ The Dangers of This Bullsh*t Narrative

Turning consent into a gray area based on feelings instead of facts has one massive consequence:

🔥 Now, any man can be accused of assault at any time—even when he did nothing wrong. 🔥

❌ No threats. ❌ No force. ❌ No actual non-consent.

Just a vague feeling that he “should have known” she wasn’t enjoying it.

And guess what? That’s not just unfair. It’s f*cking dangerous.

This sh*t doesn’t protect women. It turns men into lifelong legal liabilities.

🔥 FINAL VERDICT: If You Said Yes, You Don’t Get to Say No Retroactively

If you didn’t say no at the time, that’s on you.

If you went along with it and only felt bad later, that’s called regret.

If you’re traumatized because it wasn’t romantic, you need therapy, not a courtroom.

Being a victim of your own bad decisions does NOT make him a criminal.

And No, Him Not Mind-Reading Your Non-Verbal Cues Isn’t a F*cking Defense

🔥 The Brutal Reality: Regret is NOT Assault

Let’s cut through the bullsit—**consent isn’t fcking retroactive.**

If you said yes, participated, and then woke up the next morning feeling weird about it, that’s called a bad decision, not assault.

If you didn’t use your actual goddamn words to say “stop” or “no”, but instead relied on vibes and telepathy, that’s on YOU.

Consent is a two-way street—not a ‘try-before-you-buy’ policy.

📌 The ‘Aziz Ansari Incident’—Proof That #MeToo Got Hijacked by Bullsh*t

A woman going by “Grace” went on a date with Aziz Ansari.

She agreed to go home with him.

She willingly participated in sexual activity.

She didn’t verbally say “NO” or “STOP.”

She left when she wanted, and he even called her an Uber.

Then the next day… she decided it was assault.

Because apparently, Ansari was supposed to: ✔️ Read her mind. ✔️ Detect her hesitation through the power of the Force. ✔️ Understand that her silent, awkward fidgeting meant "I don't actually want to do this."

Ladies, if your consent expires when you sober up, that’s a YOU problem. Not his.**

📢 PSA: Men Are NOT Mind-Readers.

This new standard feminists are pushing—where a man is guilty if he “should have known” a woman felt weird, even though she SAID YES—is bullsht and dangerous as fck.

Men: Take notes.

If she doesn’t explicitly say no, she can still call it assault later.

If she gives "non-verbal cues" that she regrets it, it’s still your fault.

If she enjoys it in the moment but hates it later, you’re suddenly a predator.

This isn’t “protecting women.” This is legalizing regret as a weapon against men.

🔥 The Cowardice of Silent Non-Consent

The most insane part of this “Grace” story?

She never physically stopped him.

She never verbally told him to stop.

She chose to stay.

And yet, feminists argue she was still "too scared" to say no—to a 5’6 comedian who called her a f*cking Uber.

If a woman is too terrified to say “I don’t want to do this” to a guy who has ZERO power over her, then we have a societal issue of women refusing to take personal responsibility.

Screaming “victim” because you were too passive to say no is weak as f*ck.

🔍 The Real Harm? Cases Like This Destroy Real Victims.

False or exaggerated claims like this do two major things: 1️⃣ They turn SA into a joke—people stop believing real victims because of dumb sh*t like this. 2️⃣ They put innocent men at risk—any woman can ruin a man’s life just because she feels bad after the fact.

When everything is "assault," nothing is.

🛑 FINAL VERDICT: If You Want Men to Know You’re Uncomfortable, OPEN YOUR F*CKING MOUTH.

Non-verbal cues are NOT consent withdrawal. Regret is NOT rape. Awkward sex is NOT sexual assault.

If you: ✔️ Said yes. ✔️ Went along with it. ✔️ Stayed in the situation. ✔️ Only felt bad later…

That’s called a bad decision, not a crime. Grow the f*ck up.