#recurring problems

Soooooo....the boyfran and I haven't been getting along too well lately. The last few times we've talked, we've had some kind of disagreement. Our fights generally take place because Evan does something that I perceive as inconsiderate. I get upset, express my concerns, and then our conversations usually end early because of the tension resulting from the initial argument.

Evan ALWAYS gets on my case about getting upset. He says that I overreact way too much. I constantly try to explain to him that the reason I get so upset so quickly is because they are recurring problems. I cannot stand having to deal with the same problem over and over again. I know that's probably a sign that it won't change. At some point down the road i'm probably going to have to accept that Evan isn't always the most considerate person on the planet. For now, I'm going to address my concerns as I see fit. 

What ticks me off is that he is so quick to blame me for the mood dropping/tension rising. He doesn't even acknowledge the fact that I am just reacting to his actions. He's more concerned with how I handle my emotions more so than the fact that he is causing them to fluctuate in the first place. I just wish he would take responsibility for being inconsiderate. I also want him to be able to admit he's wrong sometimes and apologize without me having to pull it out of him. 

He thinks he's being the bigger man by not getting upset with me for being upset. ARE YOU SERIOUS? If you want to be the bigger man, then admit your faults and say you're sorry! Maybe I do overreact sometimes and I owe apologies as well. I just want to be met halfway.