I enjoyed this new essay, "An Imperfect Plan" by Seth Fischer.
https://therumpus.net/2021/07/an-imperfect-plan/?fbclid=IwAR2-sdSWEXOjksVDRQ9qutAeoAiG34HYHwXiBI5c2b7uu2PfnGL7yzDYX7M
Seth also has an essay in RECOGNIZE: The Voices of Bisexual Men, the anthology I co-edited) about coming out as bi--about 10,000 times.













