PSA to T(W)E(R)Fs
You cannot say in one breath that “gender is a social construct” and then in the next breath insist that “you can’t opt out of gender”.
If it’s a social construct - WHICH. IT. IS. - then you absolutely can opt out of it if you feel you don’t fit your assigned gender or the gender binary itself.Â
Like, wtf are you folks smoking bc it’s making you contradict yourselves at every goddamn turn.Â
As I’ve said so mannnnny times before:
How do you EVER expect to do away with gender if you keep insisting upon it at every turn???? [bolding added]
Personally, I see no reason for gender nihilism because it becomes another form of gender prescription (i.e., everyone is suddenly forced to be agender).Â
Instead, I prefer the idea of transforming gender from something that is prescriptive to being descriptive.Â
Again, as I’ve said before:
Concept: Gender and sexual orientation should NEVER limit us; they should only ever ENABLE us.
Instead of using gender and sexual orientation to limit us by demanding particular performativities and physical appearances, we have found a way to harness them as tools that help us to better understand, express, and explain ourselves to others.
IOW, I advocate for #GenderReform.Â
Pls join me & signal boost!!!














