#qpp discourse

i’m personally not for them at all, i find it kind of ridiculous to put such a weird label on friendship but hey if that’s how you work

there isn’t really a limit for how intimate you get in a friendship. platonic attraction exists, but there really isn’t one label for platonic attraction

it feels like a microlabel at times and lowkey insults aros by calling their relationships queer...  

a lot of people who use this label just wanna seem cool and different. i’m not really talking about the people who desire a relationship but just can’t get one, those are cool...

there also isn’t a limit for how serious you can get in a platonic relationship. having a label for a “serious friendship” or “intimate friendship” makes implies that the concept of friendship has a limit. friendship really has no limits. you can move across the country together with a friendship. you can go on vacations together, with a friendship. you can go to the same collage. 

it’s the same concept as a bestie. why put a label on it? do you really have that much of a snowflake complex? (i usually don’t like using that word, but it’s the only way i can put it out in speech.) are you trying to use a different label just to seem different? unique?

is there a stigma behind bestie / bff / best friend that you hate? please, just be real with urself.