#push presents

I think it’s time we take a moment to vent about something that’s happening to our bodies.  I actually have no idea what happened to my OLD body, the one that could buy a bikini off the clearance rack. And that is precisely my point. Disclaimer: I am a Gen exer, forgive my bluntness. If you happen to be a man, I advise you to stop reading for fear that you may no longer be attracted to your life…

Giving birth to a baby is one of the most significant achievements of a woman’s life. She has successfully crossed this challenging phase of her life. So, now it is time for the family to congratulate her and thank her for giving birth to a beautiful baby. Push presents are for women that have recently given birth to a baby. Different types of push presents are available in the market; you can buy one from online stores. Choose something your lady loves, and she will surely appreciate your gesture. You can add some personalized touch to your present.

 Celebrities gift luxury cars, bags, etc., to their partners. But if you want to impress your woman within budget, you must mix your emotions with quirky ideas to woo her. Rings with your baby’s birthstone can be an excellent option. You may have bought diamond wedding rings for women earlier, but now, you can go for an interlocking circle necklace, initial name necklace, or name bands for both of you. You can also gift her a baby birth journal. She can jot down her journey from getting pregnant to delivering the baby.

Have you ever seen a woman without the soft corner or jewelry like they have for new dresses? Normally, women love shopping for exquisite pieces of jewelry adorned with precious gemstones, particularly diamonds, ruby, turquoise, emerald, sapphire, and different others. Being a fashionable woman of this era, your jewelry collection might make your friends jealous. Even with a few simple pieces of ornaments, you can carry a beautiful dress on any occasion. Use your wedding bands or push presents, you received during your pregnancy as fashionable ornaments that you can confidently wear with a nice long or short dress that you have chosen for a corporate meeting or a hangout party with your girlfriends. 

We are going to talk more about some of the must-have ornaments in a woman’s jewelry collection—

Deck up your neckline

With an envious swan neck like Audrey Hepburn, you can try wearing large necklaces. Try chocker diamond chains to flaunt your beautiful neck. If you can confidently carry a deep-cut dress, wearing a long chain along with a pendant can make you look taller and more gorgeous. 

Earrings for your ears

Your earring collections should have both danglers and studs. Round-faced girls should wear danglers to make their faces look narrow and sharp. Women with narrow faces can try large rings to make their faces look round. Your collection should have a couple of diamond studs to complement the large neckpieces you wish to wear. Avoid wearing anything on your neck if you have already chosen a huge earring for any special occasion.

Rings & Bracelets 

Your jewelry collection is incomplete without diamond cocktail rings or bands. Club the rings along with a chick diamond bracelet if you focus on flaunting your sophistication about dressing up. 

OK.  I am indifferent to the goings and comings of the BRF, unless it pertains to tiaras and jewels, so this obviously caught my eye.

That said- the idea of a “push present” makes me want to rage vomit.  

Getting a present because you had a kid?  Fucking ridiculous.  I’m not saying that ‘oooo the babbby is the prezzie’ and all that, because I’m not that mushy and luvvy.  

If one more of my in-laws gives me a gift and says, "we're just so THANKFUL you gave us such a wonderful bundle of joy!" I'm going to scream and hit someone. Probably not my 75 year old grandmother-in-law but someone.

All I hear is, "thanks for doing this impossibly hard thing just for presents and acclaim and bragging rights. Because that's why you wanted a baby, right? Here is a gift so that you will feel validated and perhaps inclined to grant us permission to love this child."

Believe me, I needed a lot of help during both pregnancy and delivery, and I was very supported and loved by these same in-laws. That's not my beef.

My beef is that they seem to feel my wonderful baby wasn't prize enough? That I'm so greedy I desire material possessions to offset the roughness of motherhood??

Back up off me, yo. All the help I've gotten and friendships I've built was and continues to be plenty enough. Now stop reverse guilt tripping me and let me enjoy my amazing baby and work at being the awesome mother I'm striving towards.