#positivitywarrior

I didn’t make one. I’m not going to make one. Why? They put way too much pressure on me and I just don’t see a point in making one. We say ourselves that it’s ok to live this old way for this one more week and then the year changes and so do we. But why not start earlier? If we feel like something needs to change - why do we wait until the end of the year?

Perhaps I could say that this year I want to be even kinder and more loving than ever before. But it’s not really my new year’s resolution - it’s my everyday goal.

So what I’m trying to say here is this: if making resolutions feels a little forced or distressing in any sort of way, don’t make them at all. It’s unfair to presume we can change over one night. Just give yourself some time and understanding.

Love, Positivity warrior.

The question above is something that I asked myself maybe two years ago. I used to ask that kind of questions myself pretty often. But by now I have learned the simple answer to that question:

NO.

Mine or no one’s body and its shape is not a reason to not wear a certain dress or shirt or whatever. We are all allowed to wear whatever we want and wherever we want. Today I’m gonna go out to see some friends and I’m gonna wear a dress. Because that dress is beautiful and so is my body.