#positivitty

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5 daily reminder:

Most things can be thought of as negatives, and there’s so much self-hate in this world. As I am bearing my soul in this blog, my insecurities are likely to show, but today, I would like to focus on things that I like about myself--not to brag but to maybe feel better about myself, as I have felt somewhat insecure lately. I think everyone should recognize their good qualities from time to time.

- I am a very fair person. Even if I dislike someone, I will do my best to make them feel comfortable and that they have just as much of a right to exist as I do; I’d never, ever deliberately try to make someone feel unwanted or insignificant. If they push me too far, well, we will have words, but that has rarely ever happened. I’d rather remove myself from the situation.

- That said, I am staunch and particular about some things, but I am always considerate and care a lot about how others are treated. And, I do my best to make sure others’ opinions are heard and not only heard but considered. Like, I have a great sense of style, but one of the reasons that it is so great is because I take feedback seriously--some more so than others, sure. I feel like I can’t be truly great on my own; everyone has their assets.

- There is a difference, though, in how I treat friends, strangers, and most people I dislike. If I am your friend, you know. I’ll go out of my way to make  sure you know that you matter to me. I spoil you, I shower you with compliments, I spend time with you--absolutely anything I can do, because I didn’t have a lot of friends growing up. So, I want you to know that I appreciate you. People I dislike might not know it; I tend to dislike people who don’t care about the people around them, anyway.

- I pick up on the emotions of others very easily. If someone is having a bad day, I’m the first one to notice, and especially if I like them, I’ll try my best to cheer them up without making them feel ashamed or guilty about how they feel. We all have our bad days, and I try to understand why people feel the way they do without passing judgment on them without knowing shit.

- I’m very smart. Writing comes naturally to me, and I may be quirky and sometimes experimental (or raw). But, I really know my shit without trying to seem like a know it all, though I know I can come off that way sometimes. Look, we’re all trying to learn to navigate through life, and I do my part by sharing the things I’ve learned with honesty and confidence. I try not to muddle my thoughts with a buncha extra like “in my opinion....”

- I’m nice without being a complete pushover. It’s true that I value peace and expression, but if we need to have words, we will have words. Sometimes, very rarely I think, something needs to be said to keep the peace, and I am not afraid to do what’s necessary. In other words, I will let a bitch knw. Usually, you can say or do whatever you want to me, but if you disrespect somebody I care about or treat someone unfairly in front of me, I will correct you.

- Last but not least, I do not get hung up on silly, little boys--for long. Love and I have a complicated relationship. I want to be loved, but then again, I don’t. And sometimes, my feelings get hurt over rejection, but such is life! I don’t let it get me down for long. I feel things intensely sometimes, but I’m actually very resilient. I bounce back, bitch! I also don’t stay mad for long; I forgive but don’t  forget. We all fuck up sometimes, and we all deserve second chances. I’m not going to burden myself by keeping bitterness, anyway.

Well, that’s it for now, but I might come back to this on another dark day!