#polyselfship

Note: I've defined some terminology at the bottom for those unfamiliar. Since I have multiple polycules, I'm putting group names in the tags so you can ask for one of those, and others can do the same if you like.

1. In what order were the relationships within your polycule* formed?

2. Were you and your f/o(s) already polyamorous, or was it something you decided to try together?

3. Who lives with who? Who sometimes stays the night with who?

4. Has anyone gotten jealous? If so, how was it resolved?

5. Do you get compersion* for your f/o(s)? If so, what are some memorable moments where you felt it?

6. If you have metamour(s)*, how well do you know them? Do you ever hang out with your f/o(s) at the same time, or do you prefer to take turns?

7. If you have f/os who are metamours, how well do they know each other? Do they ever hang out with you at the same time, or do they prefer to tak turns?

8. Does anyone in the polycule have or want children? If so, what does that family structure look like?

9. What's one of your favorite things to do with each f/o in the polycule?

*polycule: a network of people connected by non-monogamous relationships.

*compersion: A positive feeling when your partner has a good experience with someone else; the opposite of jealousy.

your FOs wants to make sure you fell loved and that you don't overwork yourself <3

your FO polycule is happy when you come back with a new FO <3