#polyfidelitous

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Over the past years my husband and I have discussed finding someone to have a relationship with. Recently we decided that we want to try. We just moved to a bigger city and thought we would have better chances than the backwoods small highly religious town we we're living in. Now that we're serious about it, we've been doing a lot of reading trying to find out what the proper terms are and what we're looking for exactly. We want a polyfidelitous triad. For us, that means that we would find someone that likes both of us that both of us like. Everything we discussed with each other we kept it on equal grounds for all three of us, who ever that third person may be. When I saw the term "Unicorn" I got super excited because I think it's adorable. Until I read all of the negative connotations   that go with it. For us, we're looking for someone that we can have a genuine good time with. Hang out for awhile, go out, maybe lead to a sexual relationship later on. Depends on the third and how she wants it to go. Ideally, we would find someone who we both love and that loves both of us and we'd live together and be a big family. It's a stretch I know. Him and I are lucky enough to find each other and be as perfect together as we are. Sometimes it feels greedy to want another person when some don't have any. We just have a lot of love to give and want someone to share it with. Unfortunately, there are a lot of shitty couples out there giving off the wrong impression. There more I read the harder it seems. A lot of poly couples have relationships outside of the relationship that don't intertwine but we're looking for an exclusive triad. I still think "Unicorn" is adorable, but I guess I won't use it considering everything that goes with it. If anyone knows any good poly sites please let me know. Or any advice anyone can give. 

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#2 Pepper is Spicy

#1 The Introduction

I am polyfidelitous, though I've never really had a healthily-functioning poly relationship. Communication was always the biggest issue. I always tried to let people know what I was and what I wanted in a relationship prior to making or attempting to make any changes to the relationship. But sometimes people would say they thought it all sounded fine, only to become jealous, uncommunicative and/or secretly against it later, and often not even tell me until I practically dragged the truth of them. I'm not sure I'll ever risk attempting a poly relationship again, at least not unless the other person is already poly themselves and VERY knowledgeable about how it all works. I don't expect or want mono people to change for me, and grew really frustrated with people treating me as if I valued them less for being poly and wanting a long-term girlfriend. I've always been pretty open about it. Thankfully, I'm finally with someone who is not only good, but -excellent- at communication and I don't have to worry about these things with him (even though this is the first relationship I've been in where I don't really feel as needy for a second partner). It's just nice to know that if, one day, the right girl comes along, my partner will be super happy for me and I have no doubts about it. <3