#polyamory question

I’m looking for a healthy relationship. (Hopeful for a poly relationship but anything would be fine <3 )

Who am I:

I’m Alex Johnson. I’m 16 (17 in two months), I’m from Michigan and I’m queer. My pronous fluctuate but they/Them is what I most prefer. I’m looking to try a poly relationship, I really have an connection to that but I also enjoy exclusive monogamus relationships as well :)

What I need in a relationship;

Reasurance, trust, COMMUNICATION, openess to ideas, faithfulness, and respect. I will provide the same.

Boundaries for this “application:”

You must be (late) 15 - 19 years old.

Any gender is alright with me

You must be a decent person. No racism, homophobia, transphobia, etc

I’m okay with long distance as long as we have communication and boundaries set in place

A lot has happened, besides life and bills.

I went to see my boyfriend!! It was amazing and wonderful, and I cried leaving. His wife is sweet and fun to be around. But past things have hardened her and for good reasons. They want me to move out there eventually.

But once I got back that happy week turned into a nightmare….

My brother whom I live with (because of his health and financial reasons, and his gf and baby) started acting like I had to be with or around them 24/7.

But has been on laying the “I can do it “ card. So I laid into him and he kinda backed off.

Then my mother has surgeries lined up and won’t be able to do much so I offered while she down 6 weeks healing to be at her house as much as I can.

Well that went to shit when my pops (mom’s husband to be) spoke truth, we baby my brother and he need to grow up. All because I asked to stop and get my brother and his gf food. Pops had a point my brother could have drives to get it… But he definitely wouldn’t.

Time goes by and stuff is being worked out. But now I’m hit with my meta (boyfriend’s wife) is done being poly but is okay with him and I dating cause she wants us to be happy.

Now mind you she and I talked and I get where she’s coming from. And am happy she included me in the conversation about it. I’m still scared there will be one day she might make him choose her or me…

And I feared for my plans to move out to them, and she still plans on me moving out there.. it’s kinda worrying but knowing she wants me out there make me happy.