"It's Complicated" Ship Asks
How did they first meet? If multiple participants, did they all meet at the same time?
How did their relationship evolve? Did they start out as friends, coworkers, enemies, hookups?
How do you foresee their relationship evolving? Will they stay together long-term in some form, or eventually go their separate ways?
Do they show affection through words or through action?
How would they describe the relationship when the others aren’t around to hear it? Is that an accurate description, or just their perceptions?
How would they introduce their partner(s)? (Friends, partners, spouses, etc.)
How often do they spend time together? Is it more or less often than they would prefer?
Do they live together? Sometimes, all the time? What do their room(s) or common areas look like?
If they live together, what does the housekeeping spread look like? Do they all take turns with everything, or have their own niches?
Do they voluntarily spend time apart? What does that look like for them?
What is the nature of their relationship? Is it sexual, platonic, romantic, all of the above or something else?
Do they tell each other everything? To what degree do they keep secrets?
If more than two participants, how do their relationships with each other vary? Are they all equally involved, or are some of them more romantic/friendly/sexual than others?
Are there any activities all of them enjoy together?
If more than two participants, is there any activity that the majority enjoy that someone does not enjoy? Do they tap out, or tolerate it anyways?
What’s the worst argument they’ve had?
What’s something inconsequential they disagree on?
Have any of them ever ended/left the relationship? Why, and what, if anything, brought them back together?
Who among them would kill for their partner(s)?
Is sex a part of their relationship? If so, is it important to them?
Do they have any kinks they engage in, whether it be sexual or for fun?
What do they like the most about their partner(s) personalities? What about their appearances?
Is there anything they would change about their partner(s) if they could?
Do they have any inside jokes?
Have they ever been on a date?
Is there an aspect of their relationship that those outside of it typically don’t understand?
What’s the most stressful thing they’ve gone through together? How did it effect the relationship?
Do they have any anniversaries? Are they important to them? If so, how do they celebrate?
Do any of them get jealous? How do they deal with that?
What’s something about the relationship that surprised them?
