#otp asks

make sure to include the pairing(s) you are wanting these questions to be answered for . these should work for poly ships as well as monogamous . feel free to edit these as you see fit .

💕 How did they both realize “oh wait, this is actually love”?

🌹 Who fell harder & who fell first?

🫂 What’s their favorite way to hold each other when words aren’t enough?

🔥 What’s the pettiest thing they’ve ever argued about?

💋 Who says “I love you” first & how?

🌙 Who’s the little spoon & who pretends they hate it but secretly loves it?

💍 Would they ever get married? What would the proposal look like?

🧸 Who still has the very first gift the other ever gave them?

😈 Who is more likely to start chaos “for the vine” & who films it?

🎶 What’s their song - the one that makes them both tear up / grin like idiots?

☕ Who’s the morning person & how do they lure the night owl out of bed?

🛡️ Who jumps in front of danger for the other without thinking?

😳 What’s the most embarrassing thing they’ve walked in on the other doing?

💔 What’s the one fight that almost ended them?

🩹 How do they comfort each other after nightmares?

👀 Who gets jealous more easily & how obvious are they about it?

🍳 Who cooks & who sets off the smoke alarm trying to help?

🧳 If they had to run away together tomorrow, where would they go?

😏 Who is bolder in public (hand-holding, kisses, etc.)?

🌧️ Who steals whose hoodies when it rains?

🎂 How do they celebrate each other’s birthdays?

🖤 What’s the darkest “we’ll never tell anyone” thing they’ve done together?

💌 Who leaves little love notes & where do they hide them?

🛌 Who hogs the blanket & who ends up freezing dramatically?

😴 Who falls asleep first & who watches them with heart-eyes?

🚪 Who’s more likely to say “we’re not leaving this room today”?

🌸 What nickname do they have for each other that would mortify them if others heard?

🎤 Who sings in the shower & who secretly records it for blackmail?

💞 How do they act when one of them is sick?

🩸 Who would literally kill for the other & who would help hide the body?

🌅 Do they go on sunrise / stargazing dates? Which one do they love more?

😤 Who apologizes first after a fight, even if they weren’t wrong?

🧩 What tiny habit of the other do they find unbearably adorable?

🎪 Who plans elaborate surprise dates & who just wants to stay in?

👑 In their relationship, who’s the king / queen & who’s the knight / advisor?

🌪️ What’s the most chaotic thing they’ve done together on pure impulse?

💤 Who has the weirdest sleep-talking lines that the other quotes constantly?

🧡 What color reminds each of them of the other?

🕰️ If they could go back in time, what moment would they relive together?

😶 Who’s terrified of saying “meet my parents” & why?

🍷 Who gets tipsy first & starts spilling embarrassing love confessions?

🌿 Do they want kids/pets/plants together? What do they name them?

🪞 Who takes longer getting ready & who hypes the other up in the mirror?

💥 What’s the biggest risk one of them took for the other that the partner didn’t find out about until much later?

🧣 Who steals the other’s scarf / gloves “on accident” every winter?

🌌 What’s their “we made it through hell” memory they’ll tell their grandkids?

😘 Who kisses the other first thing in the morning, morning breath & all?

🩰 Slow dancing in the kitchen at 3 a.m. - who starts it?

⚓ If one of them had to leave forever, what would they leave behind for the other?

1- what do you think is the appeal of their dynamic

2- how do they weaken and strengthen each other

3- is their relationship related in any form to their individual character arcs

4- are they better in concept than in execution

5- what visions or hopes do they have for their relationship

6- in what ways do they complement and complete each other

7- how much time did it take each of them to notice their feelings for the other and how long did it take for them to act on those feelings

8- are they naturally compatible or do they make an effort to try and understand the other

9- do they consider the other a big part of their life and how inclined are they to plan it around the other

10- how vulnerable are they with each other and when are they the most open with e/o

11- is there anything they keep hidden for themselves and refuse to share with the other

12- would you consider them to be functional or dysfunctional

13- what is it that they need the most from their partner and do they find it easy to ask for it

14- did they ever have to sacrifice for their relationship and what was their sacrifice

15- how would you describe the rhythm of their relationship

16- how accepted is their relationship by their community and loved ones

17- what made them choose each other and what was the decisive factor

18- how do they disturb or challenge each other

19- where do their morals and ideals align and where do they diverge? are they attuned or in conflict ethically

20- how did the relationship change them individually

21- are they both on equal footing in all aspects or is their imbalance within their dynamic and if yes how so

22- what is the one thing they would change about their partner and the one thing they would keep

23- is there trust between them? where does this mis/trust stems from

24- is their relationship characterized by continuation or separation

25- how would they fill in the blank in the sentence "my partner is my ---" if they are not allowed to use the word 'lover' or anything of sorts

26- what is the definitive moment of their relationship and what's their most romantic moment ever

27- what is the most extreme thing they have done in the name of love

28- would you want to be in a relationship like theirs

29- does their dynamic emulate any other dynamic in their lives or within the story

30- in what ways do they inspire one another

31- what can be considered the worst thing they have done to each other

32- is there happiness between them and in which way does being together bring them happiness? is there more happiness than sadness or less?

33- do they give and take from each other almost equally or is there an inequality

34- what are the external and internal obstacles they face in making the relationship succeed

35- how do you think their childhood or the relationship they witnessed while growing up affect their own relationship

36- do they believe they are worthy of the other's love or not and why is that

37- what is the base on which their relationship is built on

38- how does jealousy manifest in their relationship and how do they usually handle it

39- what are they the most grateful about in their partner

40- imagine them in their best state as a couple what would that look like for them

41- what do you believe is the metaphor of their relationship

42- how intensely are you consumed by this ship, from casual to way past the point of help

43- how gentle, soft and considerate are they with one another and how do they show up for each other

44- do they handle separation well? can they withstand being apart or is it difficult? and is it harder on one more than the other

45- how are they different when they are with each other than when they are with everyone else

46- in what ways does their relationship fall within the norm and in what ways does it stand apart

47- what are their fights like? how intense is it? how do they go on about apologizing

48- where does their relationship mostly exist: in public or in private

49- what is the most difficult thing they had to go through together and how did that affect them

50- which room do you think they would use most if they lived together

How would a thumb war go?

How do they go about solving arguments and what do they usually argue about?

How do they celebrate their anniversaries?

What acts do the couple do for the other that they absolutely adore? (ex: A knows B hates peeling oranges so A does it)

What matching outfits do you imagine the pair wearing?

How did they become official?

How did they act with one another during the crushing stage?

During the crushing stage, how did they try to get each other's attention?

What did the pair compromise for each other, if they did?

What is an incredibly heartwarming moment between the two?

What do you love about them?

What is their ship name and why?

How would the pair do in an escape room? What kind of room would they choose and would they get out?

How do they work together?

What do they do to make each other laugh? Doesn't have to be on purpose either.

If they're separate and they see something that reminds them of their beloved. What would it most likely be and why?

What do they do that make their partner think, "Damn, that's hot." (Could be an innocent gesture)

Do they have a dirty secret they hide from one another? What is it and why do they hide it?

Do they have a place/object that is specifically theirs? Where/What is it and why? (ex: Odysseus and Penelope's olive tree bed)

What is a secret that only their partner knows?

How did they meet and their first impressions upon meeting each other?

What AUs would you like to explore with them? If you have, what AUs have you done and what happens in them? Do you have a favourite?

What is a hobby/habit that one of them is into but the other can't get behind, and vice versa?

Did they have romantic rivals that wanted one (or both) member of the OTP? Who were they?

Did they ever have a disastrous date? What happened?

What tropes does your OTP fall under?

What made you start shipping them?

How do they divide up the chores? Who does what?

What is their home like and how do they decorate it?

What memes do you associate the individual characters/OTP with?

What's their cursed couple Halloween costume?

Do they remind you of another OTP you love? Who and why?

Imagine this OTP on a couple date with another OTP of yours. How does it go?

If they get married, what would their wedding be like? (Location, food, guests, wedding outfits, etc)

Is there a travel destination they wish to go to?

Do they have a couple bucket list?

What did the couple introduce to one another? (Can be a product, hobby, way of doing things, etc.)

What is something they admire about the other?

Before they were dating, did they have supportive friends who tried to set them up? What did they try to do?

Thank you for taking requests!

Why not both? ¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯

2. What would they do if the other woke in a manic state after a nightmare?

BAELOR: Could be quite easily summed by: Worried HusbandTM. Soft-spoken, urging you to focus on him, bringing you closer to him, breathing with you until your gasps even out, holding you if needed/letting you go if you need space, stays up as long as needed until you fall back asleep. Is the type to wipe any tears from your eyes, kiss your forehead in a gentle reminder nothing could ever touch you while he's around. Murmurs gentle reassurances in High Valyrian, soothing every fear away until the shadow is gone from your face.

How did they first meet? If multiple participants, did they all meet at the same time?

How did their relationship evolve? Did they start out as friends, coworkers, enemies, hookups?

How do you foresee their relationship evolving? Will they stay together long-term in some form, or eventually go their separate ways?

Do they show affection through words or through action?

How would they describe the relationship when the others aren’t around to hear it? Is that an accurate description, or just their perceptions?

How would they introduce their partner(s)? (Friends, partners, spouses, etc.)

How often do they spend time together? Is it more or less often than they would prefer?

Do they live together? Sometimes, all the time? What do their room(s) or common areas look like?

If they live together, what does the housekeeping spread look like? Do they all take turns with everything, or have their own niches?

Do they voluntarily spend time apart? What does that look like for them?

What is the nature of their relationship? Is it sexual, platonic, romantic, all of the above or something else?

Do they tell each other everything? To what degree do they keep secrets?

If more than two participants, how do their relationships with each other vary? Are they all equally involved, or are some of them more romantic/friendly/sexual than others?

Are there any activities all of them enjoy together?

If more than two participants, is there any activity that the majority enjoy that someone does not enjoy? Do they tap out, or tolerate it anyways?

What’s the worst argument they’ve had?

What’s something inconsequential they disagree on?

Have any of them ever ended/left the relationship? Why, and what, if anything, brought them back together?

Who among them would kill for their partner(s)?

Is sex a part of their relationship? If so, is it important to them?

Do they have any kinks they engage in, whether it be sexual or for fun?

What do they like the most about their partner(s) personalities? What about their appearances?

Is there anything they would change about their partner(s) if they could?

Do they have any inside jokes?

Have they ever been on a date?

Is there an aspect of their relationship that those outside of it typically don’t understand?

What’s the most stressful thing they’ve gone through together? How did it effect the relationship?

Do they have any anniversaries? Are they important to them? If so, how do they celebrate?

Do any of them get jealous? How do they deal with that?

(made specifically for all who reblog) >>>

OTP + CHARACTER ASK

Send a ship + a number and get an answer.

1. Who is the better cook?

2. Who gets up to cook at 2am?

3. Are they into PDA? Who initiates most?

4. Their favorite show to watch together?

5. Who is the cheesier one of the two?

6. Who is always, always running late?

7. Who's clumsier?

8. Who is a morning person? Who is a night owl?

9. Who travels lighter?

10. Who is always reminding the other not to forget important documents/general things before leaving out the door?

11. Who leaves notes in the other one's lunch? (Bonus: what do they say?)

12. Who prefers calling to texting (& vice versa)? Bonus: Who is so bad at texting it made the other think they weren't interested when they first started hanging out? [This could be hypothetical as much as real].

13. Stay home/go-out? What are their date nights like?

14. Who falls asleep during a movie?

15. Who's the first to cry during movies that don't seem sad?

16. Who hogs the covers?

17. Who is more competitive?

18. What are they like when they're drunk? How do they act together? & when 1 is drunk, while the other one's sober?

19. What do they fight about most often? (Alternative: what was their biggest fight?)

20. Who randomly brings home a stray puppy/kitten to adopt?

21. Any routines one has that the other had to get used to (ex. morning, nighttime, sleeping habits)?

22. Love languages? How do they get around differences, if any?

23. Who initiates cuddling more?

24. Sleeping/cuddling positions? (Big spoon, little spoon, etc.)?

25. (a lil sappy, but..) What do they like about each other?

26. Who is prone to road rage?

27. Craziest place they had sex?

28. Who always steals the other's food? How does their partner react to it?

29. First date? (Give as much or little detail)

30. Pet names? Yes or no?

31. How do they spend their anniversary?

32. Who's so affectionate they can't stop touching the other?

33. What is their wedding day like?

34. How do they cheer the other one up during sad times?

35. What are their tastes in music?

36. Who is more protective?

37. Who wanted to see Oppenheimer; who Barbie? Did they switch opinions after?

38. If/when they have kids, what is their parenting style (or pets-who does what)?

39. Do they get along with the other's family? If not, how do they deal with the other's family?

We're back with another super-long ask game! Send a number + a character/ship for a description of their "first"... plus a couple questions for the author as well :D

If you reblog, please send asks up and down the chain for reblog courtesy! It's not a requirement but it does make things more fun for everybody 😊

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For the Character:

First big aspiration (i.e. what did they want to be when they grew up?)

First time meeting their best friend

First opinion of school as a kid

First time experiencing grief

First time breaking a bone

First time they realized their "calling" in life

First time they experimented with their personal style

First time they took a risk, or the biggest risk they've ever taken

First time living away from home

First time adopting/taking care of a pet

First "big purchase" they ever made on their own

First time leaving their home country

First time being drunk/high

First time facing their fears

First thing they remember feeling proud of

First thing they remembered feeling ashamed of

First favorites - favorite color, animal, movie, etc.

First example of real character growth along their journey

First time they felt rejected by another character

First time they felt accepted/welcomed by another character

First major change in their life, and how they dealt with it

First introduction in their story (share a snippet or description)

First display of their powers or abilities

First major loss/failure in their story

First major success in their story

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For the Ship:

A. First meeting B. First impression of each other C. First physical contact (handshake? hug? something else?) D. First kiss E. First time meeting the other's family F. First date G. First time seeing the other one sick/injured H. First time sharing a bed (non-sexual) I. First time sleeping together (sexual) J. First concert/show/festival they attended together K. First fight L. ....And the first time they had to make up M. First time they introduced the other as their partner N. First road-trip/vacation together O. First double-date with another couple P. First time seeing the other all dressed up Q. First act of non-sexual intimacy (e.g. washing the other's hair, taking a bath together, sharing food) R. First time cooking for the other S. First anniversary + how they celebrated T. First time dancing together U. First pet names/nicknames they give each other V. First time they felt insecure/jealous, and how they worked through it W. First time they realized their relationship is endgame... or isn't X. First major hardship they got through together Y. First time living together Z. First time they said "I love you"

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For the Author:

🐣 - First piece you ever wrote (share a snippet or description)

🥹 - First time describing strong emotions, and how you've improved since then

🎬 - First fandom(s) you wrote for, and if you still write for them

💀 - First time writing character death, and how you felt about it

🤝 - Favorite "first meeting" scene you've written between two characters

💋 - Favorite "first kiss" scene you've written between two characters

🔥 - First time writing romance/spicy scenes, and how you felt about it

🌍 - First attempt at worldbuilding, or a notable piece of worldbuilding you're proud of

🐉 - First genre you wrote for, and if you still write that genre now

🖌️ - First character you created, or first character you wrote for

🤩 - First big inspiration for writing (an author? a piece of media? a plot idea?)

🕷️ - First time writing something that scared you, and how it went

📝 - Pick a character: first draft of that character + the final version of that character

🏳️‍🌈 - First queer character/story you wrote

🤖 - First nonhuman character you wrote

🪶 - First longform/multi-chapter piece you've written

✒️ - First shortform/oneshot you've written

🪢 - First time writing a crossover or gift fic

🤯 - First story that gained traction/attention, and how it made you feel

📦 - First story that really took you outside your comfort zone

📖 - Piece you'd recommend as a "first piece" for a new reader to enjoy