#phanandbread

guys

2020 is 2 years away

I’ve had this problem too, and for me, the reason it was hard for me to accept it was because of my upbringing. I was raised in a very homophobic household, and those ideologies were forced on me to the point where I thought it was normal to be heternormative. This caused a lot of self-issues, because I felt this attraction to both men and women, but it conflicted with the ideology I grew up with. I was very confused for a long, long time. And of course I didn’t feel like I could tell anyone about it, because I thought that everyone was homophobic, too. I definitely couldn’t go to my parents. 

However, as I grew older, I became educated and was able to create my own stance on the matter. I now identify as bisexual regardless if I am dating a man or a woman, and I’m proud of it. I think that you may be having the same problem. You grow up thinking you’re a certain way, but come to find out, you’re not - and that’s okay. Things change. People change. Everything changes. What matters is how you feel, not what anyone else thinks. You don’t even need to label your sexuality either, especially if you don’t quite fit in one particular category, because there’s a whole spectrum you could be on. Gay, straight, bisexual, asexual, etc. are just the big names. You don’t have to fully understand yourself. 

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