#personal growing

It's a piece of advice, but I don't know if it is wise or if it is useful to you. It is what I have learned crawling back from the depths of rock-bottom. It may sound simple, but back then it was very important lesson to me: 

Learn who you are and be that person unapologetically. The strongest bonds between humans are between those who resonate on the same frequency. Conforming to an ideal image you have of yourself, or that others impose on you, will only impair your own existential experience. Accept that you have strengths and weaknesses and view them both kindly. Accept that others have strengths and weaknesses and view them both kindly. Life might be full of competitions, but living is not a competition. There's no such thing as a perfect person, there's no true gratification in perceiving yourself better than another. So be kind. Remember that opinions cannot increase or decrease your human value. Find strength in the fact that you can handle anything life throws at you when you react from the core of being. You cannot be perfect, but you can perfectly be you. In any situation, that's the most you can do. 

Up until now your priority always seemed  to be helping people.

I've concluded that in the end motives don't matter, the quality of wisdom and the source from which it came are independent.

What matters is if the message constructively resonates with potential receivers,

but

I do hope you realize you are still learning.

Your life's road has offered you many endeavors, and your personal growth is certainly applaudable, but that doesn't entitle you to cast ill-informed judgment.

Remember, in the end we are all only human, and helping others to grow is as much of importance as individually growing.

Have you ever noticed how contemplating the past relentlessly consumes your energy? And how actively building towards a future fulfils you with unrelenting energy? That's nature's way of telling us to grow. Nature always favours the path of creation.