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Realize that people will only see you, the way they wish to perceive you.
They'll project their image of the ideal person on you.
Here's the deal.
Believing that being anything else than just yourself is better than (or preferable to) being just yourself, causes assimilation, which causes you to act incongruently, which is one of the main reasons for people to be unhappy.
Are you yourself; the best version of yourself?
Are you happy?
Ponderations, by M.A. Tempels © 2015
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Mankind is the only species that actively creates and subsequently believes in its own illusions, furthermore it is the only species that feels genuine pain when these illusions are broken.
M.A. Tempels © 2015
Happiness leads to contentment, contentment leads to inactivity, inactivity leads to deterioration, deterioration leads to demise.   Having dreams is not a luxury, following them is a necessity.
M.A. Tempels © 2015
Always remember: love cannot be taught. Everything said or written about it is merely a depiction of an individual’s preferences. There is no ‘right way’ to love. Each person experiences it in a completely unique way. So please, refrain from thinking that the way you love is wrong. It might not suit everybody, but it suits you. Trying to control or alter the way you love, only leads to the confinement of the greatest emotion you’re capable to feel. I know love can be confusing and cause you a lot of pain, but the only thing that matters is that you keep daring to experience love. Your love. To the fullest. Don’t try to fit an image of the perfect lover, just be you and let your love flow free.
Lesson to my younger self, by M.A. Tempels © 2015
From the earth we mindlessly take. We wage war, spill blood, we fight, we battle, we rape. The pseudo scientific statement often used as an excuse for primal behaviour, written down in mind numbing ignorance: "We are nothing but apes." Nothing but apes, nothing but monkeys, nothing but rodents, nothing but amphibians, nothing but fish, nothing but one-celled organisms. Backwards thinking as an excuse to fend off the responsibilities of an evolved species that got where it is using the power of their brains. We are not done evolving. We have the rare ability to choose which evolutionary path we take. We are going the wrong way. Stop using the motivations of a past and lesser evolutionary stage as an excuse for contra productive and destructive behaviour. Once we were apes, now we are human. The future is unwritten. It lies in our collective hands. 'The origin of species' does not depict the future of our kind.
Degeneration, by M.A. Tempels © 2015
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The absence of God
God is an instrument created to further bond mankind as a species, in an attempt to create fertile grounds for us to coexist peacefully. Religion’s sole purpose is to create the preconditions that allow us to grow personally, as a community and as a species. Therefore the existence of God and religion is both logical and useful. However as soon as it starts serving as a vessel for limitations, oppression, negativity and/or hate, it loses its purpose and therefore its necessity.
God is not a necessity. The existence of religion is not a necessity. We ourselves hold the key to coexist peacefully, to grow personally, as a community and as a species. We should bond with each other, but we should not bind each other. We can free ourselves from the chains created by fear, judgement, and hate. We can truly grow, but only in the absence of negativity. And as we start to embody love, we will realize how we are all on our unique paths of personal growth. Paths that cannot be confined in one all-encompassing theology.
Now don’t get me wrong, if the existence of God or religion helps you sleep at night, if it helps you be the best person you can be, then by all means believe. If religion shows you your path and guides you well, I absolutely think you should follow it.
However if it causes: your potential to be limited, you limiting someone else’s potential, you finding it your right as a man to oppress women, you to feel negative about two men loving each other and consuming that love, you to judge someone practising casual sex simply because they like it, you to begrudge happiness to anyone who does not share your beliefs, you to think that all of the people above deserve to eternally suffer in a so-called afterlife, then you really should start wondering if it serves any purpose to feel so much hate for a fellow soul.
At least know that hate never serves any purpose. It only leads to destruction, of ourselves and of others equally. Hate is an utterly useless and contra-productive emotion that should always be avoided. Besides, do you really need this false sense of superiority, this false sense of security, to live a rich and fulfilling life?
It’s not hard to be a decent human being in the absence of God or religion. Share your love, share your wisdom, help people grow in doing so. Realize that the only immorality lies in detracting personal growth, be it from yourself or from others. Live with each other and learn from each other. We are social beings and therefore we are fully adapted to connect with each other without prejudice. We are wired to be kind, empathic and compassionate, yet we’ve alowed ourselves to be conditioned into intolerant, judgemental and selfish beings, even though the latter offers us no natural benefits. Let’s start being our natural selves again.
God and religion can be (and have been) useful instruments, like the training wheels on a bike, but as soon as you learn to ride they have served their purpose and become redundant. It’s time to grow collectively without concepts that limit our freedom to grow.
- M.A. Tempels © 2015
Reality is just a temporary concept, it can and will be altered continuously. However, nothing will ever change if we commit to the boundaries of conditioned reality. We unconsciously delude ourselves into believing that we need these boundaries, because we cannot control our brain’s basic need to order the universe. We have to become conscious of this mental state and its limitations by realizing that the universe can never be contained in concepts or theories. We, as a conscious species, foolishly believe that we are done evolving. Therefore we grow slower than we are capable of. In our arrogance we deny truths unseen, for we cannot control that which we cannot signify. In fact we bluntly refuse to understand  that which cannot be measured or seen. Ethereal wisdom lacks the possibility of immediate personal gain, and therefore we dub it utterly unimportant. We choose to believe we are finite, though we bask in the universe’s infinity. We are starting to grasp the concept of the relativity of time and space, but we choose to be blinded by temporary (and personal) gain. Mankind is the only species sabotaging its own evolution, it’s time to get our priorities straight. Our possibilities are only limited by our self-inflicted boundaries, caused by mortality’s fear and our refusal to adjust our actions to long term benefits for our envirement and our species. Reality is a flexible concept, it is we who have become rigid.
The Dawn of Change, by M.A. Tempels © 2015
Perpetual growth
Have you ever noticed how contemplating the past relentlessly consumes your energy? And how actively building towards a future fulfils you with unrelenting energy? That's nature's way of telling us to grow. Nature always favours the path of creation.
- M.A. Tempels © 2015
