Transition, Part 2 (Things are Changing Around Here)
So I've been on the very non-binary end of transgenderism for a long time, and I would describe the fluidity of my gender as kind of like pitch. It does change, but over months and years, not days and weeks. And for the past few months especially, I've been feeling a lot more masc, but I assumed it was the regular summer dysphoria hitting me and therefore I shouldn't change anything. But now it's getting colder again, and I'm still feeling this way. So some things are going to have to shift to match who I am now, not who I was 2 years ago.
1. Coming out again
They/them -> he/they. Also I'm gay greyro. Or (g)r(ay)ro if you will. I'd call myself man-adjacent enough that if you don't want to be following or taking advice from a man, you'd probably wanna leave now.
2. Tag usage
This is the bigger issue. I genuinely love the communities that have been made here, but as I transition away from femininity I feel more and more like I'm intruding in a space not meant for me. So I'm going to be using other tags, and they're going to be way less popular because this format of post (advice or diary entries with aesthetic pictures) isn't really a thing in masc spaces that I could find. Anyway, um. Here they are.
#effette - the only word that accurately describes what I'm trying to do with gender.
#perryism / #perryist / etc. - based on this poll I made. Might fuck around and make it into an actual list of principles later, IDK.
#it boy / #that boy / #becoming him / #boyblogger - for the sake of not misgendering myself, I will be coopting things originally for the girlies and twisting them to fit my evil transsexual agenda.
#softboy / #pretty boy / #soft masculinity / #gentle masculinity / etc. - mostly for reach and to reaffirm to anyone who's concerned that I'm not gonna become some kind of looksmaxxing sigma bro.
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Okay, that's it. Thanks!
