Aug 9, 2024
No one talks about Drac's skill in changing diapers. Vampires can do this even literally standing at the other end of the room.
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No one talks about Drac's skill in changing diapers. Vampires can do this even literally standing at the other end of the room.
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Reading Ghosts of the Shadow Market
Y'all. Y'ALL. I know Shadowhunters TV Maryse Lightwood ended up being incredible and supportive and lovely (and even book Maryse got a lot better, yay character growth). Yas honey, celebrate character growth. But y'all,
I wanna be Cecily Lightwood as a parent more than I've ever wanted most things. That woman is a powerhouse of love and acceptance and encouragement and I'M DYING AT HOW SWEET SHE WAS OFFERING ANNA "BOY'S CLOTHES" FOR HER TO BE COMFORTABLE IN AND LOOK FAB AND FEEL FAB IN. THIS IS A MOTHER WE SHOULD ALL STRIVE TO BE I CANNOT 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Balancing your relationship with Work and Kids
When it comes to balancing our relationship with work and kids, setting boundaries is critical. It's essential to set aside dedicated family time and communicate with your workplace about your commitments at home. Time management can also help ensure that work and family responsibilities are attended to.
But it's important to remember that there will always be ups and downs, and it's okay to ask for help from friends or family when needed. Finding a balance between work and kids requires effort and flexibility, but prioritising both aspects of our lives leads to a fulfilling life overall. It's also essential to take care of ourselves first, as we can't effectively attend to others if we aren't taking care of ourselves.
Taking breaks, getting enough sleep, and nourishing our minds and bodies all contribute to finding the right balance in our relationships with work and our kids.
Establish a routine and stick to it as much as possible
The balancing act of managing a career and enhancing your parenting skills or raising children is no easy feat. One way to streamline this process is to establish a routine and stick to it as much as possible. This can include setting regular bedtimes and waking times for children, scheduling family meals and activities, and establishing designated work times where possible.
However, it's important to remember that life isn't always predictable, and there may be times when the routine needs to be adapted. It's also crucial to prioritise your perfect parenting skills to ensure you take good care of your child. Finding a way that works for your family may take trial and error, but it can bring much-needed structure in balancing work and family responsibilities.
Make time for both work and family - find a balance that works for you
It's often said that "you can't have it all" when balancing work and family life. However, with thoughtful planning and prioritising, it is possible to have a fulfilling career and happy personal relationships. One critical step is setting boundaries for yourself and those around you.
Make your availability clear and stick to it – for example, don't answer work emails after a particular hour in the evening or on weekends unless it's essential. Delegate responsibilities where possible, so you have more time for your loved ones.
It may also be helpful to regularly schedule periods of relaxation and self-care, such as engaging in a hobby or exercise, to reduce stress and stay organised. Of course, finding the right balance isn't always easy, but prioritising professional success and personal fulfilment will lead to a more fulfilling life overall.
Communicate with your kids about their needs
As a parent, it can be easy to get caught up in the daily grind and lose sight of raising empowered kids. Their wants and desires change as they grow, but parents often miss the signals and fail to meet those needs. One solution is to actively communicate with our kids about what they need from us.
To empower a child doesn't have to mean lengthy discussions or interrogation sessions; simple check-ins throughout the day can make a big difference. Ask them how they're feeling and what they might need from you at that moment, and listen without judgment or interruption. By staying in tune with your child's needs, you can cultivate a stronger relationship and provide them with the support they need to thrive.
Along with fulfilling their physical needs, such as food and shelter, being attuned to their emotional needs can positively impact their mental health. So make an effort to regularly communicate with your kids about their needs - it could make all the difference in their development and overall well-being.
Parenting done right
I have to share one of the greatest things that happened to me today, it made me shed a tear of happiness. My old nieghbors rent out their house they used to live in and well they currently cleaning out that home for the next people. They bring along their twin daughters in which I have not seen in a few years so they have not seen me with my really short hair or really remember me to much. So of course a normal little kid reaction was mommy is that a boy or a girl. That’s when the mom stopped everything in its tracts. She tells them just cause you like blue dosen’t make you a boy and liking pink doesn’t make you a girl. Or having long hair dosen’t make you a girl and having short dosen’t make you a boy. You are who you are and you like what you like and that’s all that matters. Afterwards she turns me to me and is like I’m sorry I talked to them about this in front of you and I told her no it’s perfectly okay.
Are you a Perfect Parent?
by Ron Huxley, LMFT
How many of the parents, reading this column, are perfect parents? None? Well, how many of the imperfect parents, reading this column, have perfect children? Still none? While it may be that perfect parents don't need to read this column, I think the real truth is that there are no perfect parents or perfect children. If that is true, then why do so many parents act as if there is such a being as the "perfect parent" or "perfect child?" To illustrate my point, try completing the following sentences. Just say the first thing that comes to mind: 1. A good parent always... 2. Good children should... 3. As a parent, I must... 4. My children ought to be more... 5. If I were more like my own parents, I would be more... If a parent falls short of these standards, and so, is not a "good" parent, what does that leave the parent to be? Parents are left with the belief that he or she is a "bad" parent. These beliefs are responsible for why parents feel so out of control and powerless in their parenting roles. Parents need more realistic beliefs about parenting. Realistic Beliefs about Parenting Beliefs are expressions of parents' values about themselves, other people, and the world. Unrealistic beliefs create a feeling of demand that pushes and drives parents unnecessarily where realistic beliefs create a feeling of inner stability, even when circumstances aren't always stable. One way to create more realistic beliefs is to evaluate the evidence for your unrealistic thoughts about parenting. Ask yourself these questions: What law states that a child will always listen and be respectful? What evidence really suggests that all parents must be available to their children at all times? What edict states that I must be perfect? For one day, make a list of all the negative thoughts that come to mind as you go about your parenting duties. At the end of the day, look over the list and write out alternative, positive counter-thoughts. Whenever the negative thoughts come up, immediately state the alternative thought to break its power over you. If it is too hard to remember them all, pick one or two of the negative thoughts that create the most interference in your parenting and counter those only. Do that for about a week and then move down the list to the others. Changing what you say about your parenting will change how you feel about your parenting. Try this experiment: complete the following incomplete sentences and notice the emotional difference between these and the first list. 1. A responsible parent always... 2. Good children sometimes... 3. As a parent, I can be... 4. I desire my children to be more... 5. If I were like my own parents, the positive qualities I would like to have... Only one word was changed in each of these sentences and yet it dramatically changes how you think and feel. If you are going to accept the fact that you are imperfect then you will have to eliminate "perfection" language from your thoughts and words. You will need to accept the fact that you are acting "good-enough." This doesn't mean that you shouldn't strive for more out of yourselves or your child. Self-improvement is not the same as expecting perfection. "The Courage To Be Imperfect" It takes courage to be a "good-enough" parent. This is what the child psychiatrist, Rudolph Driekurs, calls "the courage to be imperfect." While there are plenty of perfect parenting standards to fall short of, there are no rules for how to be an imperfect parent. Here are ten un-commandments for developing the "courage to be imperfect": 1. Children should be encouraged, not expected, to seek perfection. 2. Accept who you are rather than try to be more than or as good as other parents. 3. Mistakes are aids to learning. Mistakes are not signs of failure. Anticipating or fearing mistakes will make us more vulnerable to failure. 4. Mistakes are unavoidable and are less important than what the parent does after he or she makes a mistake. 5. Set realistic standards for yourself and your child. Don't try correcting or changing too many things at one time. 6. Develop a sense of your strengths and your weaknesses. 7. Mutual respect, between parent and child, starts by valuing yourself. Recognize your own dignity and worth before you try and show your child their dignity and worth. 8. Unhappy parents are frequently discouraged, competitive, unrealistic in their standard for themselves and their children, over ambitious, and unbalanced in their love and limits. 9. High standards and expectations are frequently related to parents' feelings of inferiority and lack of adequate parenting resources. 10. Parents need to develop the courage to cope with the challenges of living, which means, they must develop the "courage to be imperfect."
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Hi so I was wondering about my parentage? I have dark brown hair and brown eyes. People often say I'm withdrawn/detached. I have a few close friends but I usually push away anyone else. I love books possibly more then my own family and also art. I'm a bit temperamental and a few people have told me I'm a bit scary when I'm really mad. Anyways if you get the chance I just really want to know who my parent is, thanks.
Hey there, you’re mine. Go have fun at camp…or something. -Hades
In a skype call with Firstmindmechanics and soldierofwinterspast
Me: No but Steve -
Soldierofwinterspast: Fuck Steve! Up the ass! He's not what we are talking about here
Firstmindmechanics: Howard would gladly fuck him up the ass if he's offering
Me: No!! He is not offering!! Howard! Think of your son! What would he say to you fucking his friend up the ass
Firstmindmechanics: Tony can go suck a dick
Soldierofwinterspast: -laughing hysterically-