The best silent punishment is the panty-pulling chair. That link explains what it is, and provides some tips to maximise the discomfort.

Just as a good caning results in sore pink stripes across the bottom cheeks, a good panty-pulling results in sore pink stripes between the bottom cheeks.

Other quieter punishments are:

Setting up your own whacking rod

Figging with Ginger

Sitting on the toilet and wetting your panties

Smacks on the vulva through an elastic punishment girdle

Wearing a Chastity Belt beneath your clothes

Sometimes, as you’re discovering, it can be very challenging to get a good picture of the stripe between your legs. I would hope your dom appreciates this, and knows you’re trying your best. Don’t feel pressured into doing anything, he needs to understand your real-life constraints.

Panty-pulling can be a way of experimenting with erotic pain when actually spanking yourself isn’t practical. If you can’t attach your panties to a chair, you can try tying them to your bedframe, and lie down under your covers.

If you have a very stretchy pair of panties, and can pull them up to the level of your shoulder blades, you might be able to pass your bra straps through your underwear and clip them together.

Or, if your panties don’t stretch that far, tug them up and loop a belt through the leg holes at the back. Then close the belt so you’re wearing it above your hips, then put on another layer of clothes on top of it so it’s not visible to others. This way you can wear your panties pulled tight underneath your clothes for an extended period of time. The longer they’re tight, the sorer and more obvious your stripe will be.

I’ve written another post with tips on how to take better pictures. Where the top advice is use mirrors to obtain better angles, and use the strongest source of illumination you can find, daylight being by far the best.

I’d say such meticulous planning and self-control deserves reward, rather than punishment.

Naughty girls shouldn’t be climaxing as their panties are pulled, can you ever imagine their disciplinarian permitting such indulgence? Of course not. Such a minx would definitely earn herself a long hard spanking, gaining a smarting pink cheeks to match the sore hot stripe between her legs. She’d be sent to bed with a towel tied to her crotch beneath her pyjamas, to keep her mischievous fingers at bay.

An excellent remedy for procrastination, dear reader, one I use often.

I find The Pinch really does a wonderful job of focusing wandering minds.

The female anatomy seems tailor-made for panty-pulling. So many sensations from such a simple piece of fabric. The heat felt as it rubs against her bottom hole. The hot tight grip against her perineum, as unforgiving as a disciplinarian’s grasp. The intrusion inside her tender, sticky lips. And how her hard little clit throbs as the taut material teases with her every move.

Not to mention the lingering aching delight of the resulting red stripe. Young ladies who masturbate with a nice sore stripe seem to come very hard indeed.

Not a silly question at all, I know examining the stripe inflicted by a good panty-pulling can be very satisfying finale to the experience.

If you have a full length mirror, you can lie on your back and raise your legs to your shoulders, allowing you to look between them at your reflection. Pop a pillow underneath you if you need to make the angle better.

Mirrors have the advantage that they leave both hands free, allowing you to tug your buttocks apart for a better view. Depending on your fantasy you might like to hold this position, imagining yourself being put on display, your punishment visible for all to see.

Bending over with your bottom pulled open is also an excellent position.

If you’re using a camera, the key to a good view is proper illumination. Bend over facing a light source, daylight is best, but you might try experimenting with a flash.