#overcoming shit

Great getting-over-him/her-song. 

so my family and i let my friend move in two years ago, so she could go to school here when her parents moved. she hasn't been in school, and when she got a job a year ago, its only 3 hours a day, and not very many days. and she refused to get a second job, or a better one. had me and my family drive her around. she'd stay out all night, and pretty much did whatever the fuck she wanted with no respect for me or my family. and she was allowed to live with us rent free and had freedom, which was apparently too much freedom, because it all went to her head. so when i told her me and my family has had it, instead of trying to work things out, she packs up and leave and goes around telling everyone i kicked her out. of course leaving out the "little" details of everything i've done for her, and how i was there when her boyfriend abused her, and her "friend" left her when she refused to date him. i was there for everything and she turned out to be a selfish inconsiderate back stabber. she even told the guy i like that i kicked her out, and he bought her lie, and now he wont talk to me. but whatever happens between us will be on him, because even though she shouldn't have lied to him, its on him that her never gave me a chance to explain myself or tell him the whole story. but as for her, i tried to work things between us, and she agreed to be friends, and i was willing to let go of everything that happened, and even let go of the fact that she never once said "thank you" or apologized to me or my family, and she never will, because she doesn't think she did anything wrong. and whenever anyone asked me what happened i just said "we got into it and she left."when it was so easy for me to tell the truth and make everyone resent her, but i didnt. i took the high road. and the whole reason we got into an argument, was because i asked her to sleep on the couch because i had to work the next day , and she didnt have to do anything. but she told me no and i slept on the couch because of how desperate i was for sleep. and thats when i had it with her selfish crap, and when i put my foot down she goes "if i dont do what you want, you get mad." well no shit Sherlock, you kicked me out of the room ive lived in for 14 years, and i had to work and you didnt. and when i called her she interrupted me and said "its my turn to talk" and i said "no i called you, i started talking, you wait." and she hung up on me, so i told her she better not be home when i get there, cuz im gonna yell at her, so she said she was leaving for a few days so i can "get my "precious" sleep" and i said, "good, you can move out for all i care cuz im sick of your shit." and yeah it is fucking precious sleep, cuz when she doesn't get it she turns into a bitch, if i dont get it im overracting. and i had it with her doing whatever she wants, whenever she wanted with no regard to me or my family.  so im glad she's gone. because not only did i find out how selfish and inconsiderate of a person she was when she lived with me, but also how bitter and back stabbing of a person she is when she moved out. and two weeks ago we agreed to drop it and be friends, and i found out today that she had been talking more shit and lies (other than "she kicked me out") two days ago. and i was like " you know what, fuck her and her shit, im done" and i am. she's a selfish, inconsiderate, petty, bitter person, and i don't need her bring me down. especially when i have so many amazing people in my life who help me stay lifted, they know whats going on and they even tell, "you don't need to put up with this" and they're right, and im not going to anymore. so after i give her the last bit of her stuff back, and she moves to another state in half a month, i never will have to worry about seeing her or hearing from her ever again. if she wants to continue to be petty and bitter and talk shit behind my back, i don't care, that's on her and i wont let it bother me, and if she wants to text or email fight me, she can, but i wont respond, if she calls me, i wont answer. im gonna take her and all the shit she put me through and put it behind me and move one. because i have bigger and better plans for my life than to let someone hold me down. and this doesn't just mean her, it means any negative person in my life. this was just to rant, and i was even so nice as to leave her anonymous. this was pretty much venting. i wont stoop down to her level, because i believe in karma, and i believe the universe will give her what she deserves. and she'll have no one else to blame but herself, and i already know her life will be hard, so im not worried about a thing. everything and every person from this point on in my life, if they try to drag me down, ill just cut them off. im gonna live my life to make me happy.  

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