#orphanwisdom

The earth laughs in flowers, but it cries in humans.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ As we lean into the consequences of what is now so clear it can no longer be ignored, a whole new set of questions emerge:⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Will the members of humanity afflicted with malignant amnesia be successfully initiated by this global underworld journey?⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ In other words, can we learn to die well in a death-phobic culture?⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Once we understand resilience to mean something like jumping, can we courageously leap, but be willing to fall, in order to jump again?⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Where is it safe to put our attachments when the culture makes machines of us all?⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Dying well does not mean that process serves the person dying.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Just as great art does not serve the artist.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ It serves the culture. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Submitted here for the benefit of the collective, a new conversation about normalizing death and interrogating our unquestioned beliefs on the Belonging Podcast with @beccapiastrelli >>> bit.ly/rrbelongingpodcast or click the link in bio to listen in. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ 𝘌𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘩 𝘭𝘢𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘧𝘭𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘴, 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘰𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘣𝘰𝘺𝘴⁣⁣ 𝘌𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘩-𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘥, 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘩 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘪𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳𝘴;⁣⁣ 𝘞𝘩𝘰 𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘭𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘯𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘵⁣⁣ 𝘊𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘷𝘦. –Ralph Waldo Emerson⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣Image: burn bundle #summersolstice wands with plants I grew.⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ #belongingpodcast⁣⁣ #belonging⁣⁣ #podcast⁣⁣ #orphanwisdom⁣⁣ #grief⁣⁣ #deathpositive⁣⁣ #deathdoula⁣⁣ #deathanddying⁣⁣ #COVID19⁣⁣ #pandemicliving⁣⁣ #underworldjourney⁣⁣ #initiation⁣⁣ #myth⁣⁣ https://www.instagram.com/p/CCCh7yBgW5m/?igshid=4e0wnboh17my

#Repost per credit from & the courtesy of @restless.raven ・・・ Feelings are Weather, not Architecture. A beautiful reminder by the Wise Stephen Jenkinson. #stephenjenkinson #diewise #orphanwisdom #wisewords #quotes #healing #restlessraven #medicinewalk https://www.instagram.com/p/B6MJp73nCB_/?igshid=2lyl9zyb6r90

Dark Moon. New Moon. Blank Slate Moon. Asking Moon. Void Moon. Wish Moon. Intentions Moon. Makers Moon. Ink Moon. Anticipation Moon. What If Joy Moon. All Fucks Given Moon. Inhale Moon. Expanded Capacity Moon. Frosted Morning Moon. Secure Attachment Moon. . Death and loss are not the only entry points to grief. . There are many gates:::::: . Grief for the places inside us that have not known love. . Grief for what we expected and did not receive. . Grief for the sorrows of the world. . Ancestral grief. . And grief for harm done; and for that which we cannot take back or undo. . All gates lead to a kind of commons where we meet and work to know what resides in exiled places. From wreckage comes compost, from compost comes soil. . Root Moon. Chthonic Moon. Three Seeds In The Mouth Moon. . We plant songs and grow loud. Rumbling Moon. Harmony Moon. Garland of Sorrows Moon. We wear it alone and it is burden. We wear it together and it is mantle. . The human-making technology of grief is essential to our wellness and joy as it connects us to a relational world. In a grief-illiterate culture, we must become students of sorrow. It cannot be learned alone. . Registration for #GettingFree2019 with @mumumansion ends tonight at midnight. we being Jan. 20th. With the blessing of Francis Weller whose #gatesofgrief model informs my module in this year-long course, may it be of service. . Toward liberation, always. >>> gettingfree.online <<< . #newmoon #newmoonprayer #orphanwisdom #griefandpraise https://www.instagram.com/p/BsT5rk2DRC5/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1webpowmzsa5f

All of my clients have died. Working as I do with dying people and their kin, this is how it goes. So it seems like a good time to let folks know that I am available for in-person #deathdoula services in the Portland area, as well as online if that is a better fit. Background::: I was initiated into death work via my mother who was a registered hospice nurse and was also the director of a visiting nurses’ + hospice association in Vermont at the time of her death when she was 49, and died at home surrounded by co-workers, friends and family. Subsequently, I did informal end-of-life care with a few other people, and last year completed the hospice volunteer training at Legacy Emmanuel Hospital which means I can assist with transfers (wheelchair, bed, toilet, etc.) and am comfortable providing hands-on body comfort services such as gentle massage, mouth swabbing, bed turning, and feeding. Services::: • Friendly visits (homes or facilities) • Respite for families • Vigil presence • Grief processing • Acoustic music + sound healing (guitar, ukulele, voice) - this is especially nice during the holidays • Funeral support • Grief altar installation • Visual art from bereavement flower arrangements (pressed #kurbits, eco-printing, etc.) • Non-denominational and open/affirming to diverse belief systems • Speaking and acting in ways that do not pretend someone isn’t dying Rates::: My rates are sliding scale starting at zero dollars per hour. It seems to me that becoming death and grief literate is a big part of what is being asked of those of us living in a dying culture, amid climate disaster and ecocide, while the nature of things continues to become uncovered and revealed. In service to limits, to being faithful to endings, and to all that must pass away for the new world to be born, I offer myself in this capacity, in order to gain a greater capacity for what is at hand and what lies ahead. Please share with anyone who may benefit. Thank you. >>> contact me at [email protected] <<< . . . #deathdoula #orphanwisdom #ecoprint #deathpositive #grief #griefliteracy #deathanddying #mementomori #skullpainting #hospice #palliativecare #endoflifecare https://www.instagram.com/p/BpnIxE6jMlH/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1jumkx7asuktf

#PDX friends I wanted to let you know that #StephenJenkinson (whom I’ve interviewed twice on the topics of death, the role of an artist and the making of human culture, will be in #Portland this weekend and tickets are still available. Via his website: . They are nights in which love letters to life are written and read. There’s some boldness in them. They have that tone. These nights have the mark of our time upon them, and they’ve become timely, urgent, alert, steeped in mortal mystery, quixotic, with some swagger. What would you call such a thing? Nights of Grief & Mystery. . Part poetry, part lamentation, part book reading, part ribaldry, part concert, part lifting the mortal veil and learning the mysteries there...that’s what’s in store. The doors are pried at night’s end, and still many linger and can’t leave or won’t, and there is something like victory in the air, and a weary, luminous midnight rumour that, people heretofore unknown to each other, can still join for the sake of the young among them and for the world entrusted to them, and that the Mercies count us kin, and that wonder is the currency of the Gods. . Tickets: #linkinbio or >>> bit.ly/griefandmysterypdx . #orphanwisdom https://www.instagram.com/p/BpAaUqVng0o/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1gqrsuqrw6svs

Kitchener, you've earned a place in my heart with your breathtaking autumn palette, warm people and charm #ariesodyssey #ontario #kitchener #orphanwisdom (at Kitchener, Ontario)

Hi ho, hi ho, it's off to school I go... #ariesodyssey #orphanwisdom #ontario (at Ottawa Macdonald-Cartier International Airport (YOW))

Hi ho, hi ho, it's off to school I go... #ariesodyssey #orphanwisdom #ontario (at Ottawa Macdonald-Cartier International Airport (YOW))