hey! i’m writing my oratory on empathy (and other things that i can’t think of how to describe correctly lol) and in the first section i talk a lot about how i personally apologize too much and say sorry even when it’s not necessary. i like how it turned out, but i’m afraid it’ll come off as condescending and a kind of ‘oh haha it’s so annoying how polite i am haha’. do you have any advice on how i could address this topic in a better way? thank you so much!!
Hey, I'm doing a speech on empathy too! How cool is that?
Anyway, with this topic, it's really hard not to have that undertone because empathy is based on that aspect of this is sad, it's making me sad and now it's making you sad.
Perhaps bring up the condition known as hyper empathy (which is what it sounds like), and talk about how it makes the feeling all the more worse when you can't control your emotions and people mistake it as a cry for attention and make you feel annoying.
So basically, you have to try and make it come off not like a 'I like putting things in rainbow order, I'm so OCD' type of condition but a 'this is real, it effects my everyday life and it hurts that people don't take it seriously' kind of thing. This will make people feel more connected to what your saying and not going 'wow that's so quirky'
I really hope this goes well for you! Best of luck!!