Because I don't ever want to "fully" medically transition, because I'm not usually dysphoric about my breasts and never about my vagina, because I'm multigender, because I'm not a binary man, because I like dresses and lipstick and nail polish, I often worry I'm not "man enough." I don't pass. I use a mix of pronouns, including some neopronouns. Would an achillean man want to date me? Find me sexually attractive? These thoughts hurt and I'm afraid to find out the answer.














