In may, we’ve probably only texted a few lines with basic intro...then here comes the below:

him: What’re you up to tonight?         I’ll be teaching summer school actually! (in response to my previous question as to what he will be doing in the summer)

me: not much...just relaxing at home and watching 20/20 lol.  you?  how long of a break do you have before summer school starts?

him: I have a 3 week break before i start summer school.  We should hang out.         I would ask you to make out with me tonight but you’re busy watching tv at home lol

and that was the end of that convo.  he probably unmatched me a few weeks later.

This is prolly local boy #5 that I have met since last November. Again, very nice guy. Picks you up, pays for dinner, not a pervert (at least not yet?). But just…zero conversation.

My friend recently told me…maybe I have been spoiled having lived in NYC Bc the majority of the people I met had a story of their own. But here….story? What are those? 😓

He works 6:30am - 3pm installing AC. Goes home after that to avoid traffic. If he eats out, it’s genki sushi. He has never tasted uni and doesn’t like to eat food if they don’t look right to him. Doesn’t know how a shoyu bottle works. Orders teriyaki chicken and spicy ahi roll. Doesn’t eat any other raw fish.

Does he drink? Vodka coke maybe. Never had a mojito. Doesn’t like beer. Jameson tastes weird. Watch movies? Not really Watch tv? Rarely Surf? Don’t know how Swim? Barely Hike? (I mentioned the two that I went on yesterday - he’s never heard of them yet he grew up here) Video game? Nope Church? Nope Karaoke? Nope Beach? Don’t really like it Does he volunteer? Nope Music? Listen to anything but never heard of Spotify He liked high school more Bc his friends were all there. His fav class was piano but he failed the tests because he was too lazy to practice. He didn’t know what it takes to get into Iolani/punahou.

The few questions he’s asked me… What was it like going to Iolani? I said - what do you mean? What is your impression of Iolani? He answered: rich over ambitious straight As kids What I like to do on wkeds? I said hike, volunteer, maybe beach.

Dare I even ask about travels?

I asked him the 6 questions abt the house the cube the flowers the ladder the storm and the cat. He was amused. Didn’t ask about mine.

Told him about Myers Briggs…never heard of them but will prolly take it to understand.

Other topics - open relationships, freshmen horror stories, boys and girls club, ways you were brought up, types of friends, prior dates...etc etc From 6pm - 9pm...forced conversation...

I was first person he met online.

Sigh…

Why? We matched when I swiped right. You said “hi” and I replied “hello :)” and then you unmatched….

Oke itu headlinenya. Berawal dari online dating dari salah satu aplikasi pencarian jodoh yang “swipe” and “match”. Tapi begitulah, match diawal belum tentu match setelah bertemu, begitu juga saya dan dia. Photo dan chat belum bisa mewakili sepenuhnya bagaimana karakter seseorang. Kalaupun dia gencar banget di chat, ngabarin tiap hari, nanyain kamu lagi ngapain, jangan lupa makan, jangan belajar mulu, dan obrolan-obrolan pemanis sebuah pendekatan, belum tentu setelah ketemu dia tetap seperti itu. Namanya juga kencan buta ya, mau berharap apa mz?