#on notes

some people on this uglee website are way too focused on numbers of notes and numbers of followers. what happened to just creating for your own joy??? why does it have to be about numbers of notes or followers?? why do you need to know how many followers i have? literally how does that affect you in any way? it’s not your blog, so why do you need to know? why is there a mindset of ‘oh big blog vs small blog’? i don’t share my numbers for that reason, because it’s weird to me how some people will treat you completely differently after learning about your numbers. they either treat you like you’re less than them and they’re better than you, or they start trying to get shit out of you. i have been on both sides and it’s effing sucky either way, so can this mindset of pushing numbers and having numbers or even just creating things to get xx amount of notes or xx amount of followers stop??? just let people run their blogs the way they want to and have goals, but don’t be pushy and try to get info out of them when they don’t wanna give it. 

why is she talking abt my feet in other ppls notes... 😰