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Manifesting Susie meeting Asriel and instantly disliking him for multiple reasons:

“For many women, the most sex-positive contexts may not be the culturally sanctioned or readily available ones—such as hookups when you’re in college or the same old sex for the 1,287th time when you’ve been married for ten years. For some women, those are great contexts, but for other women a great, sex-positive context might be an anonymous one-night hookup against a wall of other people’s coats in a stranger’s closet at a party. For others it’s the warmly affectionate sex of a long-term, committed relationship. For some women, it’s a wide range of contexts, and for others, it’s a narrow window. As long as a woman is attending to her wellbeing and her partner’s, it doesn’t matter what the context is, as long as it brings her pleasure.