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I never connected or understood what it meant when my mum used to say,‘god helps those who helps themselves’ but at this time and given what we’re all dealing with, her words have never been more appropriate.

For those of you who follow my blog and who sift through the pages, you will have got and understand the gist of my writing and should find some comfort.

In the world, it is clear, more that it has ever been, that we are not where we were with our mental health, say 6 or 7 years ago. The UK has done Brexit, the world is facing its biggest challenges for survival through Covid-19 and climate change and for most of us, it’s business as usual. We couldn’t wait to get back into our lives and Covid has become a mere inconvenience.

Yes, through lockdown, we couldn’t wait to get back into our lives, and no real though was put into understanding what the virus meant, or how we needed to change once we were allowed to get back out into our lives.

What I write is a force for good. I write and do so with good grace. Through my writing and through the universe, I point out what it is we all need to know, so that we can live our lives and leave the world in tact for future generations not yet born.

For that to happen, we need to put the effort in and change the way we think about how we live. As the experts continue to wade in, it’s not going to happen without us putting the effort in. This is where my books can also help. They serve as a tool, a guide; a reference point to a better way of living.

Part review for Cerebral Palsy: ‘A Story’ Finding the Calm After the Storm

“This is a read not just for those with similar conditions, but for anyone seeking to discover just how much a full positive mindset and a never-say-die attitude can give you the strength to not just manage, but to overcome.

Five inspirational stars for a read that will make you cry, give you hope, and cheer for the courage of this magnificent woman.” – Mark Carnelley

My Books in Covid-19

In Covid, Cerebral Palsy: ‘A Story’ Finding the Calm After the Storm and ‘Spirituality, Healing and Me’ give us hope that we can renew, we can do better, be better than we were yesterday and continue in our lives with hope, and with a new understanding of how we can live successful lives.

Challenges are universal

We’re not getting this right. Mum also used to say, ‘you get one crack at life’ how true and on point her words are. The challenges we face are universal. They belong to each of us; we are all responsible and yet we don’t see it as our responsibility. We are all facing difficulties, and those may seem separate, but they’re not and we need to unite, to come through to support and help one another, if we are to continue to live our lives.

We are ‘guardians of our world.’ Through my writing, my health and wellbeing are based on messages delivered from the universe. It is important to act on those.

Buying my books help me to continue to support you, so that I may continue to write, and I would be grateful for the support.

If you want to look for more info, or fancy grabbing your copy, check out this link – https://linktr.ee/Ilana_Estelle

We interpret our life based on events of the past. Set in our subconscious and often out of reach we continue to judge and compare every thought that comes through our conscious that took place, days weeks, months or even years ago.

We perceive our thinking through realities taken from our past, based around a distorted version of how we see that experience. As we live our lives we continue to perceive our life through distorted realities of how we want to see those experiences, in effect being prisoners to our perceptions.

The way each of us see our realities will differ. Siblings in the same family, will perceive their experiences, responses and interpretations differently. But being a prisoner to our perceptions will always be the source of our misery, if we’re struggling to let go, or we feel aggrieved with the way our lives have turned out.

The truth is we take what we want to take, what works for us in our reality. And somewhere along the lines we still believe our reality is right, trying to force our opinions on others, who interpret what we see differently.

But conflicts will always play out due to our differences in beliefs and perspectives, eventually trapping us further into those haunting perceptions.

Whether you believe in spirit guides or not, our spirit guides deliver little signs that our loved ones are trying to communicate with us, that they’re still around us. When something good happens or we’re struggling and just need help, our spirit guides deliver signals that remind us that our loved ones aren’t far away. That never diminishes.

Something I’d been working on with my site came good. Whilst taking a trip out to Boston Spa that same day, little messages began to show me that my parents weren’t far  away. The car driving behind us, had part of a number plate that read ‘mum.’ On returning to the car, the car in front also displayed the word ‘mum’ on the number plate, then as I gazed over to my left, a white car also drove past, with ‘dad’ written on that number plate.

There are also other signs. White lights flickering, feathers that seem to appear. The whole spiritual thing can send shivers down our spine for those who are slightly spooked by the idea, or don’t believe this is how spirit work. Rest assured the messages they leave us are merely tokens of love, to say that our loved ones are still around us, that all is good.

For those who choose not to believe, they do so from a place of ignorance, because they don’t want to know, or because they’re skeptic about this particular issue. But anyone who is unwilling to open their mind to the possibility that our loved ones are trying to connect, will be less opened minded in other areas of their life too.

On our part it’s about keeping an open mind. To know both my parents approved, together at the same time was slightly weird, particularly as they weren’t always in sync this side of life.