#objectumromantic

Send an emoji to ask a question! I tried to keep these varied and interesting.

💫 Are you conceptum?

🧸 Are you plushum?

🍔 Are you foodum?

🚗 Are you vehium/mechum?

💻 Are you techum?

🌈 Do you consider yourself another OS sub-label?

⏰ How long have you identified as OS?

🪤 What object(s) could someone use to lure you into a trap?

🛠️ Have you ever fallen for an object you created?

📎 Have you ever fallen for an object you work(ed) with?

🍝 Do you have any object partners that are consumable/extremely finite or limited (food, candle, etc)?

🛸 Are there any fictional objects you're into? (e.g. the TARDIS, Companion Cube, etc... anything that doesn't have a real world counterpart)

⛈️ Does your object have different forms they take? (like water taking the form of rain or ice)

🦽 Do you have any accessibility devices you have a relationship with?

🎡 Are you interested in any public objects? If so, would you pursue a relationship with them (if you aren't already)?

🗿 Are there any pieces of historical art or landmarks around the world you're interested in?

🎤 Have you ever fallen in love with a song before? (specifically in an OS way!)

👕 Do you have any partners you can wear?

🎺 Do you have any sensory things that you like from specific objects? (e.g. cold metal of a trumpet, sound of a car engine, etc)

🎨 If you make art, does being objectum affect what you make? (includes writing, poetry, etc)

🛒 Has being OS influenced a purchase before?

✈️ Have you ever traveled to visit an object partner/crush?

🚆 Do you feel like your taste in objects is similar to what's popular in the community?

📺 Do you think there should be more OS representation in media?

💡 Do you have any OS headcanons or readings of media?

🖱️ Are you involved with any online OS communities?

🛋️ What are some positive ways being OS has effected your life?

🚽 Does being OS affect your life negatively at all? If so, how?

✏️ Would you change your OS attraction? (such as no longer identifying as OS, changing your preferred objects, etc)

🧢 Do you have any OS accessories you wear out? (like pride buttons)

📂 Do you have any early memories of being OS/having OS tendencies?

❤️ Are you currently in an object relationship(s)?

💔 Has an object ever broken your heart? (such as losing them in some way, breaking up with them, etc)

💓 What is your favorite thing about your object partner/crush? (If you don't have one, tell us what you like about your favorite type of object)

🪄 Let's say you wave a magic wand to grant your object partner(s) one wish... What would they wish for?

☢️ Are any of your partners dangerous or misunderstood?

📦 What is the "weirdest" object you are into?

🚸 Do any humans in your [real] life know you're OS?

📢 If you could say one thing to non-OS people to get them to understand your identity, what would you say?

🌐 Are you POSIC, or otherwise experience animism with objects?

🏳️‍🌈 Outside of being OS, do you identify as LGBT?

🗯️ Do you identify as ficto?

😸 Are you a furry?

♾️ Are you neurodivergent?

👥 Are you into people at all?

🔼 Do you identify as non-human? (such as therian or objectkin)

💙 Does being able to touch/interact with an object affect your attraction to them?

🩶 What are some concepts you find interesting in an OS way?

🤍 Do you have any specific experiences that influenced your beliefs in animism? (if applicable)

💛 If you could have time alone with a public object, what would you do?

💜 Do you prefer keeping your identity secret or do you like people knowing you're OS and who your partner is?

⭕ [ask whatever you want!]

Objectum means to be attracted to objects! Here are some of the related questions I've already answered. (1) (2) (3)

The concept of animism is very prevalent in the objectum community. Animism is a belief held by many people, especially Buddhists and Pagans, but not exclusive to those faiths, that everything in the universe has its own unique spirit or soul. Of course, not every objectum person believes in animism but a lot of us do!

Everything I can tell you is from a personal standpoint because our relationships are all deeply personal. Every objectum person's relationship looks different.

Here are some wiki pages about objectumsexuality!

https://ezgender.fandom.com/wiki/Objectum

https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Objectum

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Object_sexuality

Keep in mind each of these wikis has been edited by multiple people over a long period of time so one wiki may say one thing while another says something else. These are not the only objectum resources but I feel like they'd be a good starting point for someone who doesn't know much about the community!

Spongebob Squarepants from Spongebob Squarepants is an autistic polyamorous gay-angled aroace objectumromantic asexual nonbinary genderfluid pomogender gendercute genderfrith lettrafluid autigender sponge with ADHD and anxiety who has a special interest in frycooking and bubble blowing and uses she/her, he/him, bub/bubble, float/float, sizz/sizzle, and aut/auti pronouns!

Bub is in a romantic relationship with bubbles spatula, and in a QPR with both Sandy Cheeks, an autistic queer lesbian-oriented aroace fluidflux nonbinary demimingender lesbiangender xirl with a special interest in karate who uses xe/xym, fae/faer, pow/pows, and vy/vyr pronouns; and Patrick Star, an autistic pansexual agenderflux paradoxgender genderfluid genderqueer man who uses it/its and he/him pronouns!