Something really magical happens when I'm fingering a woman. The moment when, just my middle two fingers in, and I curl them inside them, and you feel a rush of wetness inside them, so you continue slowly and firmly, and they become so wet that it runs down the palm of my hand.
Similarly, I assume women can rush their own orgasms, so I like to circle someone's clit with two flattened fingers very slowly, and I keep a slow, steady pace while kissing their neck, and feel how gorgeous and swollen their clit becomes. I love to feel a clit get fat, and I love the feeling of someone wanting me to speed up, but allowing me to keep it slow, so by the time they cum, it's drawn out and seems to come from somewhere deep inside them.
The feeling when I grab them tightly after they orgasm, the long kisses, and the urgency as they try to climb on top of me.
These are the moments when you're dizzy with the deep joy of giving someone such a huge dose of pleasure. I live for it. I daydream about these things in boring meetings at work and when I'm standing in a queue.
