I just heard about it very early this morning after a very busy and fruitful day and just to be clear.. I don't know the girl involved.. OMG... I was just out watching Coriolanus (succeeded in making my BF like Tom [since he's totally jelly of him] as an actor) and then I see this... Why bash a fellow fangirl just because she TOOK a pic with Tom??!!?? That is just ludacris and ridiculous! It's as bad as chasing Tom when he just wanted to be left alone. We need to protect one another... Not disrespect and bash one another. We totally forget that we cannot control other people and we cannot dictate what Tom wants to do. She's lucky that she got to meet him... We have.. Need.. To be happy for her... Every single fangirl prays for that opportunity. We forget that as much as Tom is human and an actor... HE DOES HAVE FREE WILL!! Other than the fact that he does have people who ensures his safety. I agree with what some people were saying.. If one gets the opportunity to ask for an autograph or photo from Tom... Then return the favor by offering to get him tea, coffee or something (i.e. Pudding). On saying if he was tired or whatnot because of a pic.. WE WEREN'T THERE... And we cannot base it on his previous photos, selfies... Etc.. That he has taken in the past. That is over analyzing things and making assumptions. And it makes everything worst! This goes to show how true the saying "A picture paints a thousand words" If I were Tom and I found out that one of my fans was bashed to misery because of a pic and a twisted analyzation of a previous interview I gave... I would be very sad, appalled and disappointed. But I'm not him, so I cannot say what and how he feels. He must have heard about it by now, since he does have people (agents, friends, family, fellow actors) keeping abreast on what's going on in the internet for him or for their personal reasons, since he's does not really like lingering in the internet himself. If not, somehow I pray he never hears of it. To quote a friend "I'm sure Tom would love hearing about the suppose "Toms most respectable fans" bullying a teenager." We cannot baby Tom, he's a grown man. He makes his own decisions. He does what he wants.