I'm sorry but if you don't have the capacity to be with another person in a relationship of any kind u just shouldn't get into one. I don't mean u should put up walls or something, just that u can't expect the other person to cater to your needs 24/7 without giving the bare minimum in return. If you're not able to then stfu and don't get into one, that's just selfish, it's not all about only your needs









